So, I had my follow-up appointment to my miscarriage (at 12 weeks) and D&C. It was even harder than I thought. I was surprised at how painful learning the sex of my baby was(a boy) -somehow it just made me think even more of what could have been. I also learned that there was a chromosomal abnormality with the baby (trisomy 22). My doctor seemed very reassuring and said that the risk of this happening again was very low. HOWEVER, I've already had two miscarriages in a row (the first at 6 weeks) so I'm a little confused... I even asked her if there is more concern because I had two in a row, and she seemed pretty dismissive. I'm just so afraid that this will happen again. Has anyone had a similar experience?
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