When I was pregnant a friend of a friend of mine was pregnant too. We were even due the same month. It was very exciting to have a "pregnancy buddy". We were more like acquaintances but when we found out that we were both basically on the same pregnancy schedule we started to talk more. She sent me e-mails and always asked how my appointments went and vice versa. Well, the day I sent her the e-mail that I had lost my baby was the last I ever heard from her. No "I'm sorry" no nothing from her. It really hurt my feelings. Well, tomorrow night our mutual friend is having a party and I know that she will be there. I've avoided being around her for the past month and I don't want to keep avoiding situations that I know she'll be at. I'm just so scared I'm going to see her growing belly and start crying. I don't know how I'm going to react and I'm really nervous. Any advice??
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