Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Hello,
On Monday we had our 12 week ultrasound and found that our baby had no heartbeat. I had surgery yesterday to remove the pregnancy. I am feeling sad, I feel guilt for something I possibly did to make this pregnancy not successful.
On Monday we had our 12 week ultrasound and found that our baby had no heartbeat. I had surgery yesterday to remove the pregnancy. I am feeling sad, I feel guilt for something I possibly did to make this pregnancy not successful.
It's so hard to find out you are pregnant and then have a loss like this. I take it second by second. I can't even take it day by day now. We light memory candles every day. We let the balloons go. We wrote letters and poems to our babies. We are devastated right now. I found out just recently there is an International Bereaved Mother's Day on May 3. It is the first Sunday of every May now to recognize mothers who have lost their children at any stage- miscarriage, still birth, SIDS, a baby, child, or adult child, and also for women who are longing to become mothers and want to for whatever reason. I have no living children so this really describes me to a tee. A day that I can be recognized for loving my babies every second of their lives, no matter how little time that may have been, is a day I will be honoring my babies. I loved them. He loved them. We both loved all of them.