Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Hi, I am new to the group and I am glad to have found a group that will understand me. I had a miscarriage about a year ago and still struggle with the feelings of saddness, anger and disappointment. I feel guilty when I feel jealous towards others who are expecting. It also does not help when I visit a cousin who's baby was born around the same month my baby would have been born. After trying for 4 years, and it finally happens, then to miscarry, it is definitely a rollercoaster of emotions.
Hollywood8687
I lost my Ava and Phoenix three months ago at 22 weeks. It comes after five losses. I lost a daughter at 16 weeks seven years ago. I am still so heartbroken about it but especially am now recently losing two. I have all kinds of health issues, had hyperemesis severely in most of my pregnancies, and am so sad. I finally made it past the first trimester again with Ava and phone I and I have an issue with their placenta that was supposed to be rare. It was supposed to be rare. I so sad and angry that all these awful people have kids out there and I don't. I can't believe placenta issues that killed them that were supposed to be rare happened. It's not fair. Why does the near impossible have go happen and my babies die? I know how recurrent pregnancy loss gets. It's horrible. International Bereaved Mothers Day is May 3 and I'm doing something for my babies. We are devastated because we want a baby so much and I have endometriosis and pcos problems right now. I'm so upset.
dragonfly0116
I'm so sorry for your loss! It is a roller coaster of emotions. I had the same feelings of jealousy that you do when I saw other pregnant woman or people with babies. I would think, they have it so easy. They have no idea what it's like to lose a baby. It does get easier with time but I understand the difficulty. I had a miscarriage about 5 months ago and I can tell you that this group has helped me heal and I hope that it will do the same for you. I have found that writing in the journal has been especially helpful in getting my feelings and thoughts out.
sbish
I am with you on the jealousy. I know it is hard and we do not want to feel that way. I have several friend who found they were expecting hen I was, and after i lost it, I almost did not wan to see there post on social media about their happiness and their ultrasound pictures. It can be frustrating. Hang in there !
amy1120
I am new to this group. I lost my baby on Christmas Eve. I was only 6 weeks along. For a while I thought that I was ok, but then my brother told me that he and his wife were having another baby. Though I was happy for him, I was angry too. It took a little time for me to accept and handle it, or so I thought. I am at work and I see women with little babies or pregnant and all I want to do is cry. I write and usually for me that helps deal with the things that I am dealing with at the time but it doesn't seem to be working to much. I suppose part of the reason is because I wasn't sure how to grieve. April was a difficult month for me, I would have learned the gender. I cry almost everyday and I wonder if it will ever get better.
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