Military Families Support Group
Today's military family faces a lifestyle that is comprised of frequent deployments, which results in increased family separations. This often proves to be a stressful challenge for military families. This community is dedicated to the families that are dealing with the unique challenges of distance and military-related stress.
Another thing, the money should be managed by you. Are there any specific reasons of why he didn't leave you in charge of the savings and money? I suggest that you also include this in the letter, because once you guys are married you become the next of kin, not his parents, unless he has a legal document.