Military Families Support Group
Today's military family faces a lifestyle that is comprised of frequent deployments, which results in increased family separations. This often proves to be a stressful challenge for military families. This community is dedicated to the families that are dealing with the unique challenges of distance and military-related stress.
Hello everyone. =)
So I'm new to this group, and just thought I would briefly share my story..
A little over a year and a half ago my long time best friend joined the Navy. It was rough on me to have him leave, but it was the right thing for him, and we remained close through boot camp and the last year while he's been in school in San Diego.. He came home in early August on leave, with orders to Virginia once his leave was up. While he was home I finally admitted to my feelings for him [he's always had a thing for me] and once his leave was up I drove him out to Virginia. We got there only to find out that his ship was leaving on a 7 month deployment the very next week.
This is so much different from before when he was away. Before, even though he was far away I could still talk to him all the time and text, and now I can't... Not having that daily connection to him has left a big hole in my life.. I have some serious health issues and I'm stuck in a bad living situation at the moment, so, like I said, it's very hard not having him here with me.
We've been through hell and high water together, and I'm not even remotely worried we can't make it through this too. It just sucks is all. I miss him, I worry about him, and I'm just looking for a little emotional support to help me keep a smile on my face as I count down the days.
So I'm new to this group, and just thought I would briefly share my story..
A little over a year and a half ago my long time best friend joined the Navy. It was rough on me to have him leave, but it was the right thing for him, and we remained close through boot camp and the last year while he's been in school in San Diego.. He came home in early August on leave, with orders to Virginia once his leave was up. While he was home I finally admitted to my feelings for him [he's always had a thing for me] and once his leave was up I drove him out to Virginia. We got there only to find out that his ship was leaving on a 7 month deployment the very next week.
This is so much different from before when he was away. Before, even though he was far away I could still talk to him all the time and text, and now I can't... Not having that daily connection to him has left a big hole in my life.. I have some serious health issues and I'm stuck in a bad living situation at the moment, so, like I said, it's very hard not having him here with me.
We've been through hell and high water together, and I'm not even remotely worried we can't make it through this too. It just sucks is all. I miss him, I worry about him, and I'm just looking for a little emotional support to help me keep a smile on my face as I count down the days.
Are you guys "dating" now?
what kind of communication do you guys have?
My Fiance is in iraq right now, so i totally understand how hard it can be. ive been having health issues too, going through alot of treatments etc. its hard not having them here for that kind of stuff.
I dont know what your health issues are, but if you're able to work out i strongly suggest it! I've always been very into fitness, but lately i have been hitting the gym everyday, its an amazing outlet for everything i find!
hope you are doing alright, let me know if there is anything i can do to help, always here if you need someone to chat with!
I have an auto immune disease called Crohn's disease that I've had since I was 3 and will have till I die [unless they find a cure]. I try and walk regularly when I'm in good health, but lately I've been pretty bad. Actually when Nate was home on leave he ended up having to take me to the hospital and spent a few days of his vacation in there with me. Incredible guy. I usually end up hospitalized once every 6 months or so, so that is one of my fears.. Having to go in again by myself before he gets home.
I'm sorry to hear your fiance is in Iraq. I know that must be way worse then just having him stuck in the middle of the ocean. Thankx so much for the reply, and the tip on exercising [know from experience it does help a lot when I'm able to do it] and the offer to be there to listen if you need someone is mutual. =)