Hi - I need some input. My brother has been lost to us on meth for about three years. He called me today from jail begging to bail him out - he's picked up on a warrant and is probably going to start detoxing soon. He swears he's been off it lately and I can see some evidence that he's made a bit of progress in his physical space. I told him we'd bail him out if he'd go into rehab and he refuses and says he'll cut me out of his life. He says there's someone who will bail him out but he called me first. When I refused, he hung up.
Am I doing the right thing? He blames us for so much that he's destroyed but I just feel horrible about not bailing him out.
On November 6, I finally met my goal and made 1 year clean. This was the hardest and longest process I have ever went thru in my life but I am glad the hardest part is over but the battle is never over. Addiction sucks it really does but I can say it is a humbling eye opening experience. *pat on the back to me.
Hey everyone,I am new to this. I am a family member of several people who struggle with different addictions (meth, heroin, alcohol). Mostly cousins and my brother in law. I have been the support to my other family members. I am the one that everyone always comes to when they have questions or need resources or ideas for where to go when they need something. In regards, to my brother in law he...