Meth causes paranoia, he has it big time.Drugs will kill a relationship fast.Yeah Meth is the reason he is acting like an azz

The root of the problem is the meth the increase of your misery is you are continuing this relationship with the hopes that it will be okay and it wont because the use of meth is progressive and he will use more and he will get worse even to the point of doing something stupid.If he has no desire to quit and no attempts then you should make arrangements to get out of those arrangements.Deral

yes it could be the sole thing.

get out of it. get out of there. things can be different. you can feel happy..even without the drug

When I was on meth, I had a relationship with someone I only knew on meth. It was great at first, and then went to hell in a hand bag. I always thought that he would be different if he was straight. We tried to get straight together a few times, and I found out he was hard to deal with while straight. Eventually, we both got straight alone, and I found out that we just weren't compatible. Your situation is different though since you were first together while straight. I know the drug causes people to act out of character, but I also wonder if the drug can enhance someone's negative character flaws.

relationships based on drugs or alcohol, when one finally get's sober, the relationship usually falls apart.Why would you even want to be with someone on drugs anyways?????

My husband is an alcoholic/addict. When we met, he didn't tell me he was an addict. In fact, he told me he'd never used drugs other than to try pot a few times when he was younger. Long story short, when he started using meth, it changed him completely..into the person you describe in your post. deral is 100% correct, and you're best option is to get away and take care of yourself. Never in my life have I experienced something as crazy as trying to reason with someone using this drug. It can't be done.

Sounds like my husband. I hate meth, it has destroyed me and my family. I can't stand it. I wish it was never here in the first place.

I am sorry to leanr of someone else going through this. IT SUCKS, mine went out all night and then had the balls to come home and question my faithfulness. WTF?

Get him help...see ifhe wants help if not get out of there when you can, it only gets worse.

This is to all of you ladies that struggle with a husband or boyfriend that has a meth problem.Get rid of his sorry ass and if you are aiding and abetting his use then get rid of your demons and find 2 things a differant life and a differant man .A sick meth man will physically emotionally and sexually abuse you to the point he will look at you as if you are a whore on the street and will say I love you day in and day out just to have his slave and sexual desires met and that s.o.b. dont know the first thing about love and he sure as hell dont care if you are emotionally drained because his addiction is his partner and besides look up the word love in the websters and read it to him and if that piece of shit gets offended then youve struck a nerve and his manhood is focused on meth and not your happiness.Im sure a lot of people are gonna disagree with me and tell you to hang in there and help him but thats a crock ,if he wants help let him get it on his own to prove he is a man.How do I know all of this because I use to be one of those sorry pieces of shit and the only thing on my mind was that rush and screwing from sun up to sun down and to see how miserable I could make that women feel because she was under my control because I had the sack and I was the big man and God only knows when I relive that time in my life I am so ashamed and wish I could take it all back but I cant but what I can do is tell you ladies first hand is that if you are living with a meth addict he does not love you and things will only get worse unless some major changes take place and its up to you to make those life changing decisions because peterpan aint thinking right and he needs you to cater to him so he will say and do anything you say ..............FOR NOW........But look out here you go again because he will deceive you just long enough to win you over then here we go again.Leave his sorry ass or make him get some supervised help and make him piss in that bottle. Dont be a fool and dont be his puppet and if its his money you are dependent on then go to school and work to better yourself so you dont have to depend on anyone.

I am going to put my two cents in ...
Never associate with anyone who is using or hangs with the crowd who does...
I believe people can change but make the best choice for yourself and your children and other family members...Make Good Correct Choices, choose to change! For the better.

It may be behind the cruel behaviour .... it certainly won't assist mental stability in anyway.

A man I had a relationship started to treat me the same way and i blamed grief and alcohol and tried to help his insecurities. It went on painfully for an unnecessary amount of time. He was like this BEFORE he met me to previous partners and I would bet he will do it AGAIN. I realised that when I went through tough times it did not affect my treatment of others no matter what I was experiencing I never took it out on anyone.

We are still pals and this may not be in anyway applicable to you but its my experience.

Don't let it his moods bring you down. Ideally, move out . You need clarity. He needs to know you will not tolerate this treatment or you will be leaving. He will feel your absense and it could motivate your fella to do something positive. I know it is a hard thing to do when you are very much in love but don't allow him to carry on thinking this is ok.

Best of Luck x
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How can I get help my bf is using meth to cope with metal illness as I’m typing this he was beside me watching porn and touching his self last night I ask him a question and he didn’t like it so he got upset this isn’t the 1st so not I think he Emotionally Abusive to me and the next day he does the porn thing i am in a wheelchair so it harder for me to leave and I have no family in the state I’m in what do I do

I know a street person who uses meth as often as he can. When he is high on meth he talks to himself in two or three different voices. He has duel personality disorder because of meth. Things will get worst for you.