Masturbation Community Group

For all those people who touch themselves. Wether it is a little or alot. you can sound off here and list your concerns and comments. All are welcome

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blondeangel21 02/23/2019

Hey guys so I’m having this problem where I can’t seem to rip myself away from masterbating multiple times a day and porn has been a very big issue too. I started when I was 12 and got hooked on both immediately but put down porn for about 3ish years and in the past few months I’ve picked it back up thingking id be fine but now even when I’m feeling guilty in the moment I go ahead and do it anyway. I masterbate 2 or 4 or even 6 times a day. I have a wonderful sex life with my fiancé but we are trying to have some abstinence bc we are religious and our wedding is coming up this summer and want to not only make it special but respect our beliefs. I’m just so frustrated, it even happened tonight.. that’s how I found this group, through shameful guilt filled tears... I just want to know who else is struggling like this, am I really the only one? And if not, how do y’all cope? Success stories?? Things that work?? Literally anything please..

Barry 02/23/2019

I would feel that masturbation was be a problem if it were taking over my life, otherwise not. If you want to reduce, this might be helpful:
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-stop-masturbating#1

blondeangel21 02/23/2019

Well my problem is it kind of is messing with my life. If I have to masterbate I HAVE to. I’ll leave the room and go into the bathroom at a friends house to take care of it and I even do it when I’m not horny like 90% of the time.

Barry 02/23/2019

It seems it is taking you over. Why not try an internet search on 'How to stop masturbating' to see whether you can find something helpful. I'm sorry I can't help. Although I get a thrill from masturbating, it has never been so compulsive as to take me over. Good luck, Barry.

blondeangel21 02/23/2019

Thanks for your kind words. I am, I’ve already figured some stuff out like getting my fiancé to child lock my phone and take away my “toys”. Good luck to you too!

momtobedwetter 03/21/2019

I guess using the child lock on your phone is a good thing and might help. Do you think to take away your toys will help too? You may just use your hands more often? And I believe that some level of satisfaction and use of toys is required to live a happy life?
However I wish you all the best and good luck.

guitarman79 06/21/2019

I was hooked on porn for, 20 yrs, (Not so much masturbation, Well, ejaculation
I don't if that's considered masturbation)
Think of it this way, if You look at porn, it's linked to viruses,
And then Your Pc start's to slow down. It also corrupts Your mind..

Wish I could offer advice on how to stop........But, good luck to You.

OlderCPer 07/11/2019

Have you considered Professional Help, like a Therapist or Psychologist?

Barry 01/15/2020

I am just wondering whether you have had any success with your problems. I have sometimes enjoyed a bit of porn but remind myself that they are only acting and wouldn't want to know me. Then I find something more interesting to do.

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