any drugs people use is not, or should not, be normal.
it would be normal to be able to relax and enjoy without pot.
if you can do that you wouldn't get addicted that fast either. because people that use to feel normal are the worst addicts.

if you can handle your partner smoking while you dont, that would be a good start. i hope you will succeed.

yea

My friend still smokes...her husband quit. She's not willing to give it up (and he respects that she can make her own decisions) so she just smokes it away from him.
To "quit" the person has to want it.....pressuring them will likely backfire.

Depends on your definition of "normal". Some drugs replace something lacking or in error in an individuals chemistry.

A couple of Joint of modern weed, high in THC is quite a lot, far in excess of what is necessary to "unwind", at that level you will be effected for the next 24 hours, if you work or drive, you should cut back. This assumes you get high quality "one hit" dope, any time you use weed, always consider that there is a reason they call it "dope", weed ideally should be saved until you have enough time to fully recover before launching back into the world.

Sensitivity to anothers wishes regarding weed is a very important aspect of responsible weed use. Depending on where you live, "outside smoking could be dangerous to your freedom".

Might try pick a room with a powered vent, like a bathroom, only smoke there and take airfreshener with you. There is no such thing as addiction to pot, can't be metabolized like that, but you can become habitated, almost as bad.

I feel like cutting it out completly isn't a good idea.

People drink beer to have fun sometimes, I feel weed should be looked at in the same light.

Not every night, but on occasion.

Don't rely on it for relaxation, if you do, you won't know how to do it on your own when the green runs dry.

I recently quit, but my husband continues to smoke to deal with chronic pain and other illnesses. I live in a community drenched with marijuana, so it's something I have to learn to live with.

It would be so much easier to let go of it if I lived on a deserted island, but that's not going to happen! I want it bad enough now that I am making it happen. Sometimes you just have to wait for the right time to jump off the merry-go-round.

To some people, it's normal to smoke a couple of bowls or joints in the evening. That's what I did for the past ten years, with a couple of 6-month breaks. And I know hundreds of people who smoke as much or more.

However, most people in this world live their lives without daily use of a relaxing substance.

I abused weed with my ex husband for 2-3 years. We were both high everyday.On our days off we would smoke before our first cup of coffee until we went to bed. We had our own business so we were even smoking at work. I started smoking about a year after he did. I tried it for pain. When I found out how much weed he had brought into our home to distribute(sell) without consulting me I was really upset and scared. He even tried to convince me to let him grow it in our garage. I tried to tell him that weed had taken over our lives and we needed to smoke less& it wasn't ok that he had brought that quantity into our home to sell without asking me, he wouldn't listen. I ended up smoking more& staying numb, Eventually weed was the only thing that mattered to him. He wouldn't even consider marriage counseling unless weed was not discussed. When I left him& filed for divorce he was selfish, controlling, he isolated me from family& friends, he had no interest in sex,he abused me verbally& psychologically. Its been overt years and Im still healing. I didn't want to waste the rest of my life being stoned sitting on the couch being verbally assaulted. I don't see how any healthy relationship can survive if one partner is abusing marijuana.

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I wake up in the mornings feeling angry at myself - for smoking. I always say i want to quit, my partner doesnt seem to be bothethered if he smokes or not, but we usually do - its not healthy in a relationship to be using drugs everyday, even it if is a couple or joints - then makes me question our lives, its hard enough with my family not accepting it.

i mean they ar accepting my partner at all, dont even mention his name, im going mad i really am.

i hit the bong every day after classes. it did make me relax, but it made me anxious and lazy. i smoked more and more until i wanted to do harder drugs cuz i didnt get high anymore. i smoked to cope with my inner emotions. im never going back to that anxiety, it changed who i was eventually. keep in mind, i smoked like 10 bowls with my bf a day. yea get rid of any temptation for ur partner

go to marijuana anonymous or narcotics anonymous. ask for help. pot is not the problem. though, we don't realize that on our own