Hi all....I have a quick question to all the ladies that have had a child after they have been diagnosed. Was it a hard decision to make on whether to try to get pregnant after you found out you had lupus? Right now, I'm struggling with decision of whether to try for a second baby or not. I really want another child but I kinda had a scary time with my first child (didn't know I had lupus at the time)-he was premature and had to be in nicu for about a month...I'm also scared that I might have a little girl. My husband and I really would like to have a girl but I don't wanna risk passing this on to her...so what should I do..how did you come to make your decision to have more kids?
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