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When is it too much Love.

pchamber
pchamber
I have a problem. I am married with 3 children and although for years my marriage was awful, It seemingly getting better. I started a relationship with this man whom Is now over the heels in love with me, and in my mind I love him too. I am juggling two relationships. Nether of the two know about each other. I feel so awful I dont know how to stop doing this. I end one relationship and pick up another. This relationship only started as a friendship and before long we were involved. I want no one to be hurt but in my heart or rather in my mind I love both men. They both give me what I want.
deleted_user
deleted_user
pchamber, if the man on the side so to speak is single then maybe he is the one for you, if he isn't single however, then the odds very much are that you are filling a void in his life in much the same way as he is you. My interpretation of this kind of thing does not relate to love at all sadly because ultimately someone will get hurt, and that someone includes you.

Your attachment and current actions, once exposed, and make no mistake, in time you will be exposed, only create hurt for ALL concerned because when your hand is forced only hurt can come of it. Your hurt will come via your guilt feelings, which, by the way, is indicated in this post. The longer this goes on the greater the emotional damage you will cause for all concerned, my advice, end it asap.
DeidreRenee
DeidreRenee
Ending a relationship is one the hardest things to do (other then child birth of course), but sometimes it has to be done. If you have negative feelings about having both relationships, then there is something wrong. You have to let one go. Which one, thats up to you and your heart.
pchamber
pchamber
You are right. I have made it a point at ending one and of course someone is hurting but as again you both are right, it to be done. Thankyou so much.