LOVE ADDICTION Community Group
This forum will help all who wish to recover and gain some tools to be able to cope and deal with the issues stemming from our emotional problems that are hurting our relationships on a day to day basis...The relationship with ourselves as well as others...The solution is here for the taking..
I think I love a friend of mine.he and I have be intimate and at time he even asks acts like we are dating but then pulls away. If I talk to someone else it makes him jealous and when we are away from each other a long period of time he gets defensive. Like he misses me but rather say I'm acting funny then tell me so. I think about him every day and when we actually together I'm always laughing ot smiling. What can I do. He not stepping to the plate?
The only way to differentiate between a boyfriend and a friend is to set appropriate boundaries with this person. The way to do it is by differentiating your emotions. Being curious about how you feel and what you want and separating yourself from him and his wishes that way.
Perhaps you can come back and give us an update.
I hope you are doing well in this confusing situation.