Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Support Group
This community is a place where you can share your long distance challenges and triumphs, vent, give long distance tips and ideas, or just get support from people like you who are going through the same thing. Whether you live a couple hours away or a couple continents away, the specific challenges that face a long distance relationship are unique and difficult.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. I am in the Philippines and he is in New York. Unfortunately the US embassy revoked my visa and now his friends and family was telling him to end our relationship because it's impossible for us to be together. I don't know what to do I love him so much and I know he loves me more but after hearing that I felt depress should I end our relationship or stay strong he said he is willing to wait but i am too scared.
I'm sorry to hear about the your visa. It's sucks when they make it harder for everything at the moment. I understand long distance is really hard, but if he's being honest and let you know what his family and friends thoughts, also he said he will still be waiting and stay for your relationship, I think there is no reason you have to end it if you reallhy love him. Because you will always be able to try apply the visa again or you both can try hard to find the way to be together.
I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in America. Distance is so far away, sometimes I'm going crazy about this relationship cause the distance but at the end of the day I know what I want and I believe in us. He's going to visit me in Australia this year.
So stay strong, everything is gonna be ok. Talk through with your boyfriend about the future more, I'm sure you both will find the way eventually. I'm not sure if you and him already met or not yet but it doesn't matter, believe me things will work out if your relationship is meant for each other. Good luck with everything!