Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Support Group
This community is a place where you can share your long distance challenges and triumphs, vent, give long distance tips and ideas, or just get support from people like you who are going through the same thing. Whether you live a couple hours away or a couple continents away, the specific challenges that face a long distance relationship are unique and difficult.
Hi, I'm married to the love of my life, and we both are crazy about each other. Unfortunately due to our jobs, we have to stay in different cities. We meet every weekend. But during the weekdays, especially work hours, he is extremely busy because his job is very demanding. He hardly gets time to talk to me. We don't have any issues, and no trust issues. But i sometimes feel the need to talk to him on phone, but cannot because he is so occupied. Then I feel sad and miserable and it brings my energy down for the whole day. How can I keep this from happening? We both love each other, but i just feel like i have to talk to him, else i get depressed. We talk all evening and night. its just at times when i need him, and he is busy.
If those aren't feasible and he really is that busy, then you just have to keep busy yourself...there really is nothing more you can do about the situation without it affecting his job. Try contacting friends and family...I know it's not the same as having your husband there but it'll help fill the void until he's able to give you his full attention again.