Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Support Group
This community is a place where you can share your long distance challenges and triumphs, vent, give long distance tips and ideas, or just get support from people like you who are going through the same thing. Whether you live a couple hours away or a couple continents away, the specific challenges that face a long distance relationship are unique and difficult.
Okay..I am 19 year old female I have known my partner for 4 years... I currently live in Georgia, but he is in the military and stationed in North Carolina. I love this man to death but I worry because a month before we got together his friend decided to buy him a hooker to lose his virginity to. Just recently that friend oh his has returned from over seas which of course makes me worry. We had a fight a couple days ago because I told him I might not want to have sex with him again until we get married or I have some kind of commitment. Randomly the other night he said "I won't ever cheat on you but that is a good way to get cheated on." My reply to this was that I could not believe he said this, and he replied with " well your dislike of tattoos pissed me off too."
I am unsure how to deal with him even saying that comment because he knows I worry about him cheating on me. I have had bad experiences with guys and also he has a friend willing to buy him hookers s well.....how am I supposed to be comfortable with everything now?
I am unsure how to deal with him even saying that comment because he knows I worry about him cheating on me. I have had bad experiences with guys and also he has a friend willing to buy him hookers s well.....how am I supposed to be comfortable with everything now?
But if you do sleep with him, it has to be because you want it, not because he's pushing you into it.
There is no too young for sex, not really, but there are a lot of emotions that go a long with sex you might not be ready for.
If you try and control him, and can't trust him when he say's he's committed to you, then getting married isn't going to fix your feelings, you have to decide if you trust him, he can't prove it to you.
If you truly love him, then you already trust him with your heart, if he says it's ok, then it is, if you can't trust him with your whole heart, you are lying when you use the word love.
It's your choice, but if you want the relationship to work out, you need to decide, nothing he will do can make up your mind for you.