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What is going on with me?

MaryContrary
MaryContrary

I contacted a man on match who is just in a town a few miles away.  He thinks we don't  have enough in common to even meet.  He just turned me down flat.  


What is going on!!!!!

billwfriend
billwfriend
that hurts....is he age appropriate? he has either got high hopes or no sense....
cedarbrooke
cedarbrooke
You sound very desperate. People can sense that. Maybe take a deep breath & write down what you are looking for in a relationship so you can make some great decisions.
brandnewangel
brandnewangel
There’s nothing wrong with you but I do agree with cedar .

One thing is you never want to depend on someone else for your happiness.

People do have preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that .

I know they say opposite attracts but people do need to have some things in common for any relationship to work,
Barry
Barry
This does not mean that there is something wrong with you. In fact, he might have done you a favour. He might have recognised that he can't give you the affection you want and is not going to take things further and disappoint you.
lisabme66
lisabme66
Best you find out sooner rather than later how shallow this man is. In saying that though, he may have set himself certain 'goals shall we say of what he is looking for. Either way .. you are SO better off not even meeting him as imagine if you went to all the trouble of getting yourself all done up for a date and take the time out to drive to the meetinf plqce with hopes of making a connection .. only to be let down in person. I know 2hich one I'd rather. You have literally lost nothing here. Scratch him off the list and move on. There IS NOTHING wrong with you. You will find someone.
lisabme66
lisabme66
Sorry for the typos. I should have spell checked before I sent it.
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