When it is right for you... and only then should you be in a relationship,. so do not beat your self up over it... relax have fun and be trhe guy girls want to be with... and thats the BEST you YOU can be...

i was in my 30's my first relationship. As the previous post says, when it's time it will happen. And be worth waiting for.

Yeah don't worry about it. You will find some one. I'm sure you're a nice person!

I did not find true love until I was 40. Don't be discouraged because it feels like such a long way off. You may find it sooner - I am just telling you how it happened for me. I am glad that I found it later in life than earlier because I had the wisdom that can only be gained through living to appreciate it and to nurture it. Having been in previous relationships, I knew what I wanted and what I didn't want. My biggest revelation was that I did not have to compromise to love someone. The person you find should make you complete.

Please don't worry about this. It will find you when you least expect it! In the meantime, enjoy your youth. Get out there and make lots of friends, but you need to get out to do that.

I'm with you mas. I'm 21 and havn't been with a girl but I've decided to stop looking because I know I'm not ready for a relationship. It's hard not to be effected by peer pressure and family, and then there's also the feeling of regret when you think about all the past opportunities you let slip by so no it's not ridiculous to those who understand the situation your in.

To answer your question, I definitely don't think there's any specific age unless your looking at it from the perspective of the social norm and standards. I've come to accept that I mature slower than others

no there is not a set age.

I'm in the same situation that you are. I'm almost 20 years old and I too have never been kissed. I feel as though I'm way behind everyone when it comes to relationships, like if it were a class I would have never got out of the first grade. Don't feel as badly about it though, there are others who are in the same situation that you are and are feeling exactly how you feel (I'm one of them):)

Pretty much the same situation here. I've kissed a girl, but I haven't been in a relationship. A girl in high school liked me because she told me, and I told her I liked her but unfortunately it never turned into a relationship. I used to think I was behind everyone too, but it seems there's a lot of others out there like me.

I think you have plenty of time, I'm 26, so I'm further along then you there. I totally agree with russi, I know I'm not ready for a relationship right now either, I have my own issues to deal with at the moment. And you can replay in your mind missed opportunities over and over, but you can't look back, or live in the past.

But no I don't think there's any age as for a relationship. Maybe to start a family/have kids you might be limited to time a bit, but heck even for that you still have plenty of time. But I wouldn't even think that far ahead, love takes time, work, and a whole lotta patience.

Just go with the flow...you can't make these things happen...just look nice, put yourself into situations where you meet nice people with similar interests (political/social work volunteering), and ask God, the Universe...the forces greater than you at work to bring you someone to love and cherish...and kiss...and be grateful that you waited and that it's coming...and it will....Good luck...:-)

age 9.

once you hit the double digits, the big one oh (10), its to late.

Ah dun aint kist no garl yit an ah thank Iz 50 yarn old. Cuzn aint no garlz in Barfark. Mebbe Ah kin kissn wun ifn they bee wun heer takissn.

dONT BE IN A HURRY,i GOT MARRIED LATE,i WAS 29,HAD MY FIRST KID AT 31,SO DONT BE IN A HURRY..TAKE YOUR TIME,AND WHEN THE SITUATION PRESENTS ITSELF,YOU'LL KNOW..

i'm really embarrassed to admit this but 27 and never been kissed

Don't worry about it. Theres someone out there for you. And I know how you feel. I'm 18 and I'm as square as they come. Infact as a joke I tell Ppl I'm so square that I'm a cube. Just one of my weird ways to kinda shrug it off. Yeah it definitely feels lonely and kinda like you're being left behind at times, but truth is I'd rather be single than in a rushed and hasty relationship that doesn't mean much. Waiting is all we can really do. But in the meantime focus on yourself, what you'd like to do, where you'd like to go etc. Take advantage of your freedom and independence, and enjoy it : )

Hey its okay. I understand, I am 26 years old and never been kissed by a guy yet. And my family and friends all have someone so dont feel bad. I am here if you need to talk.