Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I ended a lonely relationship, and even though it was the right thing, I feel like I'm always going to be alone. I'm so independent I've done everything on my own for decades and I'm tired. I can be alone, occupy myself, have friends to hang out with occasionally, but what I don't get is the affection from being in a relationship. That's what I really need. I'm tired of going through life on my own. I want someone I can share my life with, someone to take care of me, because I'm always taking care of everyone else. I'm scared I'm never going to find that because my expectations are high even though I don't judge and I'm forgiving. Every time another single mom friend meets someone, gets married, etc. I feel like it's not going to happen for me. I'm not good at meeting strangers and I'm really over dating sites. I need affection, I'm tired of being lonely and I'm scared I'll always be alone. Problem is, I'm the woman you marry, and at almost 40, good guys are taken, bitter, or not looking to settle down or be in a serious relationship. Being "good" may be a good thing, but it sure makes for a lonely life. Thanks for listening.
Treat yourself to love and love yourself in this time of singleness. You have your hobbies, likes and dislikes. Embrace yourself for this time being, for it will be over before you know it. Then you will be living with someone's smelly socks lol .
Absolutely nothing wrong with this time of singleness, you have some many things you can do and need to do, healing loving caring and bettering yourself to be the best version of yourself that you can be.
That which we fear we bring to life, I dont fear being alone currently it is my choice, and its for the best while I learn to get closer to God, learn to believe in God, learn that God loves me for who I am.
When I am ready the next person to enter my life it will be by Gods' design not my own, It is the same for you, you have this gift to love yourself during this time. Time to read, to workout, to grow your skills.
While loving yourself is a very powerful feeling, we forget to do it often.
Stop looking for someone and start living the beautiful life God gave you, you are young and intelligent, do not let this gift slip away.