I am sorry to hear this. It really is hard to be rejected for trying to be who we are, for trying to be ourselves. I am here for you if you need to talk, just send me a message.....

You are developing into the person which you will become as an adult and need to find our way. You need time and understanding as you evolve, I wish your mom was able to see this and make your path easier. Love your mom for who she is and find a mentor who may be able to help and shed some light on the troubles you are having. Maybe a youth group at your church,maybe a teacher you like try to find some help this way. You can always come back here.

Urgh my dad couldn't cope with people having different ideas to him either

He would verbally attack and go on and on trying to get you to see things his way

The right way

I tried to educate him that I have a right to my opinion
Tried to validate his ideas

I think we basically got to a point where we didn't really talk about things that we had opinions on

Or he changed to point where he just accepted that I thought differently without seeing it as some sort of attack to retaliate against and just tutting and saying a comment to make me feel like I'm stupid or something

We don't have any contact now so I don't have to worry about it anymore

Maybe your mum can't accept that you exist with a separate consciousness to you

Maybe she only wants to know people who she has
things in common with

I don't know I always used to think my dad had some kind of mental problem or developmental delay where you have to deny you have your own ideas else it really messes with them

They say in therapy that some people can't handle hearing what the therapist thinks about stuff so the therapist had to learn to do therapy without revealing their opinions on what they hear and see

Mad huh?