Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
The worst kind of loneliness is the kind where you're not alone at all. Just because you two live in a house, that doesn't make it home.
Due to: serious stress, back aches- I've gotten cortisone shots, bullying, supervisors that are beyond any kind of rudeness I've ever seen, depression, and not being able to see my son, I made the decision for a career change.
It's not something I did without consulting my boyfriend, he knew I wanted to leave. We both work(ed) at the same place and he knew how stressed I was, and how much that place was wearing on me.
I had an interview this past Monday and got the job!!!
Except..
When I told him, he was furious! He turned into a man I've never seen before! Someone so selfish, someone so rude. Talking down to me, talking at me instead of to me!
I was absolutely crushed.
We have been fighting since, I haven't been to work the past two days because I'm so drained. Emotionally, mentally, physically drained.
He's mad because I took a job with a $300 pay cut. But the thing is, we can afford it!!! He just doesn't want me out of his sight because the last time he was in a relationship, his ex use to cheat on him while he was working.
Wanna know something else!?
I'm the one who helped him through every step of his fucking divorce!
I have never cheated, lied, withheld information, I have been faithful to him, I've done my best to show him how much I love and care for him.
I feel completely crushed. The one person I wanted to tell the most, showed nothing but irritation and no happiness for me. Not glad one bit, and made the entire situation about him! And how he was gonna be sad and depressed I'm not there.
Three days later, and still no "congratulations", still no, "I'm happy you made a change for yourself".
nothing.
Koolman, thank you as well, but we aren't going to break up. He knows he has some issues he needs to work out, and he is getting the help he needs because we did almost split up because of my job change. But I'm not going to let this hurdle destroy what we have built.
I told him if we're ever gonna break up, it's gonna be because we tried everything and put 150% each into this relationship, and in the end things still aren't working out, then we broke up because we tried everything and nothing helped, not because we didn't try.