im guessing, bu t did you ask them why? im guessing you have. i know what you are saying cause a lot of my friends all at once just stop replying to e mails or on here idk why. not 1 single person would tell me why. soo what is the or else? by the way i hate this time of the year and the holidays as well . its your choise, if you do send a msg to me i promice i will reply

go off? or else? wtf is all that about?

I will tell u what's going on.
Something u have to, you must understand is, most of the people u meet in life are not meant to stick around for a lifetime, or even a long length of time. Sometimes friends only last a week, sometimes a month or a little longer. So u have to learn to get use to people who cross your path are not meant to stick around for very long. If you live your whole life having only 1 good best friend that sticks with u thru thick and thin, then u r very fortunate. People who don't really get this are the people who get devistated when friendships end. You have got to learn, understand and "accept" the fact that most all friendships WILL end. Most of the time u will never know when. But at least NOW u know why. It's because, THEY R SUPPOSE TO END. People are only put in our path for a short time. Maybe knowing this now, you will see your friendships in a whole new light. You are to appreciate friendships, not think you own those people and they are to follow your rules, or any kind of friend rules. Your rules of them having to stick around, does not igsist. So get that out of your head. You don't own anybody's ways or decisions, and nobody owns yours.

what is going off going to do exactly? either a they dont want to talk to you or b are just busy....many people do get busy and wrapped up in life. If my friends dont call me back i simply do not call them...eventually my friends will call but I am not going to keep calling someone if they never returne my call or in your case texting. Going off is only going to frustrate you more and make them run the other way!

youu guys are right going off is not going to help It will just make matters worse Thats why I ended up in the mental hospital about a year ago. I got mad when My friend did not respond to my email. I went in when the hospice nurse was caring for my granny And I hit my mom I started biting and kicking her I was so mad My mom kept telling me I can't make your friend write you back. but That just made me madder. I ended up in the hospital for 3 weeks I have a hard time with knowing what friendship is. Friendship to me is that a friend is suppose to call email text and be with me every day every hour of he day Thats why most of my friends don't want me hanging out with them . I try to control them I am trying to acept that friends come and go but I don't like it because I feel like thier abanddoning me. Like when I was put in foster care Thats what my birthmom did to me she left me all alone.

every once in a while people need time to miss each other. dont worry people still care about you and you seem nice enough plus now you have time to find some new text buddies

People in general do shy away from extreme neediness - I can see why you feel this way, it comes from your abandonment issues from your childhood, but that is what you need to deal with first - you won't fill that void with others, which is what you are hoping to do - I have been there, and have driven people away with my neediness. Can you look into continued counseling, etc. to help with this?

hi tabby, i think all views are valid, ive had a "friend" who stopped replying to my txt, in the end i didnt bother, people come and go in our life for their reasons and you just have to accept it, dont talke it afront to you personally and you shouldnt let your esteem fluctuate with the friends being available thing, sometimes it can happen for know logically reason they just dont want to bother, again you have to accept, it.
becoming demanding or needy justs push people away you cant force friendship, look at it its their loss now you can make new friends who will take you forward.

Yes I understand I just have problems making new friends I am shy I don't get out much I am going to try and go to a college thats close to where I Live instead of doing college online. That way I can meet some new friends. Alot of my friends don't want to hang around me because they know That I have mental issues and they don't want to deal with me.

Hi, if they are aware of your issues and do not stand by and support you and want to be around you, then friendship isn't the right word for that. Fair weather friend or acquaintances is probably more appropriate. You'll find people who appreciate you for who you are, despite any issues, it just takes time and patience, and meanwhile some work on yourself, as well...

Yes I nned to have friends that stand by me and support me I also need to work on my issues Your right It will take time I nned to find new friends to talk to and text

reply 11 Tabby, Next time around when u make friends. "DO NOT" TALK TO THEM ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS OR MENTAL CONDITIONS. If u do, you are just gonna set yourself up for more people leaving. Talking about your problems ONLY belongs in CONFIDENTIAL counseling sessions. If u do not have a counselor, get one, that way you can "Counseling Talk" with your counselor so u will be CAPEABLE of "Friend Talking" with your new friends. "Friend Talk" contains all kinds of talk EXCEPT FOR YOUR PERSONAL PROBLEMS, MENTAL CONDITIONS, DIAGNOSIS, LONELINESS,DEPRESSION, NO HOPE, WOWASSSS ME FEEL SORRY FOR ME TALK. Like I said, all wowasss me talk belongs in counseling and support groups, NOT FRIENDSHIPS OR BOYFRIEND RELATIONSHIPS. People (your future friends) got enough problems to deal with, they dont want yours or anybody elses.

Tabby, ...and quit throwing your temper tantrum fits like a 2 year old because people don't do what u want them to do. You were abandoned, so what, most everybody gets abandoned, we deal with it, not kick our feet around. You need something to hit? Pick up a bat and beat the bed, or pick up a pillow and beat the wall, or an ax and beat a tree til u get all the wailing crying, rage and anger out of your system. If it takes 7 years beating a tree down with an ax, then it takes 7 years. Yes, u do need to hit something. Everybody does. But u have to learn to hit something "safe". U do not hit "people" unless u want people to bust your face in too. Remember what comes around goes around.

It sucks when you are in need and there is no one around to help.
Sometimes people will step in and help out but they end up moving on to other things.
People all have their own lives and they don't want to spend all their time helping everyone else out. I know when I get down about something, there are certain people I can turn to that will talk to me but they will eventually go back to what they were doing. I understand it and don't have a problem with it. I would hate to torture someone else with my problems. There is a limit that they need to put up with it before I have to take control of my own issues and let them have their life back so to speak.

Your right I nned to learn that people have don't have time for me Its hard but I just have to learn to do something postive instead of getting angery. I do throw fits like a two year old when I don't get my way I need to quit doing that and Grow Up. Most of my friends work and they have a life I dont work I nned to get another job so that I won't be so bored and depressed.