Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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a141994 08/21/2013

I want to talk to my ex so bad tonight, is that normal? It's been like 5 months 7 months since we broke up. She's never hit me up, I've always hit her up and then she'll just stop talking to me after a while :-/ I don't know.. I feel like such a waste of A person for even considering this, she has self respect that's why she doesn't bother with me. But I seem to not posses the same quality. Please I just want to get better..I want to stop thinking about her, become a guy she would date. Please someone just tell me what I have to do to move on, I know I don't make any sense but...idk I'm so truly lost idk where to turn

deleted_user 08/21/2013

I read your discussion topic and my heart went out to you knowing how sad and lost you are. I don't know if I have any good words of wisdom for you.....I been there myself a couple times.....and it sucks..it hurts like hell, especially if you are the one that is trying to reach out. Do you really think she would consider going back to you? I don't think changing to suit her needs is how it works hon.....if she can not accept you the way you are...then she is not the girl for you. You need to be yourself....you will find another girl who will fall in love with you who loves who you are....not some phoney guy trying to be something he is not. It takes time to get over a break up....and it is normal to be obsessed sometimes for months. But you have to start doing things and getting your mind off of her. Get out there again and have some fun...eventually she will be a memory. Hoping it gets easier for you soon! Hugs!

Diane

PinterestFan 08/21/2013

Sorry you're feeling so bad.

After 5 or so months, you want to tell yourself that if she can live without you, you can live without her, and mean it. If you're hanging
on to hope that she'll see you again, you are not available to other
girls. That feeling that the other person is just making a big mistake,
you can replace it with feeling as if you're ready to move on. You
have to be determined - you can accomplish most anything if you're
determined. Hope you're moving forward and happy again, very soon.

deleted_user 08/21/2013

You won't stop thinking about someone if you get in contact with them again. It is opening up an old wound. Let the scar heal.

looney1 08/21/2013

We all go through this at sometime or another. Try to remember the old saying about people who come into our lives, some for a reason, some for a season and some for a lifetime. You learn something and gain something from each relationship whether it lasts or not. I hope you can take something good away from this.

deleted_user 08/21/2013

Im sorry your going through all this. It sounds like you need to focus on something else to get your mind of her. I dont mean to forget but move on. I no your lonely and its an awful feeling im there to and just want anyone at this point to talk to me. hang in Lisa

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