Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
i must be the ugliest human being on this planet...inside and out. like, why dnt you wanna get to know me? i promise i wont hurt you, maybe if you can look past this monster on the outside you could get to know the inside. and you'll see just how nice, loving, caring, jealous, insecure,and dependent i really am. then you could reject me for the right reasons instead of just based on my looks and you could hurt me just like everybody else. see, i'm the type of person that would do anything to make you happy(as long as it's reasonable) i would never cheat on you, or lie to you, or betray ur trust, you just have to be able to work with me on my issues. i'm sorry for not being perfect but i tried...i wanted to be happy too, but you left without even trying...:'( anyway...so now as i sit thinking in my room, trying to get new people to talk to me i can't. i go to school everyday hoping someone will notice me, i go on every dating website hoping someone will just answer my message for once! but they dnt, nobody does, cause all they see is a monster...and then you tell me it's okkay to be alone..and i say not when it's your only option..
I think the best thing we can do, and what we have to MAKE ourselves do is get out and be around other people, even if that means joining a club of somekind. A lot of good churches have nice social events.
A lot of times I go to the gym, not because I need to loose weight, but because it makes me feel better and helps me get around other people. I'm in a tough spot now, too, so I understand. I know you feel very alone right now and I'm sorry. I hope you can find a way to get out and go to a movie or someplace around other people.
Hang in there, okay?
So I really do not know what the dating game is and what girls are looking for. But whatever it is, it ain't me.
I suppose I am a monster too, or just someone who has demons that make my life a living hell.
But like you, I feel that what is important is on the inside. I used to go around wearing the inside out to show people that I was real. Now I just hide away in my room - been doing it for a month already. Over a month. Started last month at Valentines day Feb 14. It is now Mar 16th.
I wish I could say do not give up and that it will get better. But from my experience, that is not what to expect in reality. So that is the hard truth. Instead all I can say to you is you are not alone.
Maybe things will get better and we will find a mate. Or maybe not and we will just grow old always being alone.
Take care my friend. Talk to me if you feel lost and alone. I am always here.