Loneliness Support Group
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Hi guys,
It has been quite a while since I have posted something over here.
There is something that has happened in a past few months and dn't know what to do about it.
Its like I have friend at work for the past 10 months.
Initially we were just work buddies but over the past 5 6 months we have started sharing everything.We share everything from stupid to complicated things.
I knw she has a boyfriend and I am absolutely cool with it.
I am not in love with her or something but the problem is that we have started depending on each other too much.
Small small things have started affecting each other.
We expect too much of each other.
For instance once she was talking to this guy whom I dn't like,I fought with her for hrs for this though it was so normal.
Simmilarly I was talking to a girl whom she does'nt like for this she made it such a big issue.
So its like she has gone home for a week and I actually miss her.
But the problem is that we have been fighting so much for past 4 days.
We fight for hrs and no O/P comes out of it.
I know that somewhere down the line all these fights would take us apart but its like I don't wanna lose her as a friend.
She is the only person where I live who actually cares about me.
I feel stuck as I have opened up so much to her that I would actually miss her if she goes and so would she as we depend so much on each other.
She says that I dn'nt give her space and she feels reluctant in asking for anything.
I could'nt sleep properly after this.This thought does;nt leave me.
I knw in future we guys would change our jobs and it would be so difficult to even be in contact.
But i m actually scared of how difficult it would be as we spent more that half a day with each other.
I am absolutely blank what to do.
Sometimes I think I should stop talking to her on phone but then I would miss our talks.
Any suggestion????
It has been quite a while since I have posted something over here.
There is something that has happened in a past few months and dn't know what to do about it.
Its like I have friend at work for the past 10 months.
Initially we were just work buddies but over the past 5 6 months we have started sharing everything.We share everything from stupid to complicated things.
I knw she has a boyfriend and I am absolutely cool with it.
I am not in love with her or something but the problem is that we have started depending on each other too much.
Small small things have started affecting each other.
We expect too much of each other.
For instance once she was talking to this guy whom I dn't like,I fought with her for hrs for this though it was so normal.
Simmilarly I was talking to a girl whom she does'nt like for this she made it such a big issue.
So its like she has gone home for a week and I actually miss her.
But the problem is that we have been fighting so much for past 4 days.
We fight for hrs and no O/P comes out of it.
I know that somewhere down the line all these fights would take us apart but its like I don't wanna lose her as a friend.
She is the only person where I live who actually cares about me.
I feel stuck as I have opened up so much to her that I would actually miss her if she goes and so would she as we depend so much on each other.
She says that I dn'nt give her space and she feels reluctant in asking for anything.
I could'nt sleep properly after this.This thought does;nt leave me.
I knw in future we guys would change our jobs and it would be so difficult to even be in contact.
But i m actually scared of how difficult it would be as we spent more that half a day with each other.
I am absolutely blank what to do.
Sometimes I think I should stop talking to her on phone but then I would miss our talks.
Any suggestion????
I would only suggest that you ease off a bit, and perhaps try to make some other friends at work.
Counseling might help...........espcecially to find out what co-dependency is and how to overcome it.
Guess would leave it up to time..