Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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freedommilla 07/15/2016

June 6, 2016 I was assaulted by my best friend, boyfriend, husband, lover and my better half. He went to jail over a month and I never felt alone. I cant take him back into my life because of the assault and addiction. Im scared to go on with my life. I come home to no one. No one to talk to, no one to go hiking with, no one to bbq with, no one to do anything anymore. I cry every night in my lonesome. I dont have any kids. All my friends are busy. He was the only one for me and hes gone out of my life.

hh_xo 07/15/2016

I'm so sorry you are going through this, my mom struggled for years with all kinds of abuse because she wanted our dad in the picture for our sake. She still isn't healed emotionally even now. I hate to think that she blames herself, but really she needed to protect us. I hope you find comfort in knowing you are safe... If nothing else you have a shoulder and an ear right here. ❤️

sonnycamehome 07/15/2016

You are very brave to choose a life of safety over a life of violence. The transition to being by yourself is not an easy one. Have you considered calling a local womens center to see if there is a support group in your area? I know how hard it is to be alone all the time, but you have this little community to support you.

bigtimefun 07/15/2016

hope you stay safe and there is no reason of course to think your life is over....there is plenty of other things, people and places to see go do....

mechengr55 07/16/2016

Milla, you have plenty of people to talk to in this group. A lot of sympathetic 'ears'! Don't hesitate to share your thoughts. You are not alone here.

annettearizona 07/16/2016

I'm sorry for your loss but as you said you realize deep down that you have to let him go and start anew even when he does get out-you need to get involved with new activities and meet new people

getfuzzy2 07/18/2016

I'm so sorry for what you've faced. However, first off, being alone is a lot better than being with someone who abuses you. All of the hiking, trips, movies, dinners-out, etc. can't replace the abuse he bestowed upon you.

With that said, it sounds like you need to someone "get yourself out there"...join a club, take a class, join a church group, etc. Check your local sporing goods store to see if there might be a local group of campers/hikers you could meet up with.

You deserve better than being abused. Now is your time to focus on what you want to do without living in fear.

akacountrygirl 07/18/2016

Hi. Apparently he wasn't the one for you. Beating you up? Please try to be more positive. You will find someone else and you will know the true meaning of happiness. It sounds like you are missing a companion.....so try to make some new friends and get out. Trust me....it will get better. It always does.

jennybcincinnati 07/20/2016

This too will pass. You will find someone else better and kinder. You deserve much better. Don't close yourself off to others. Do something each day to make yourself happy.

freedommilla 07/20/2016

Thank you all for the kind words. I just wish its easy and simple. It was mostly mental and verbal abuse until that night the last time I seen him was he pushed me out of bed, kicked me and hurt my wrists by trying to get my phone away from me. My mom told me that night it happened was June 6th, 2016 a friend of hers told her that the evil just came out of him. It happened because June is the month of 6th, and the day was 6th then the last number of this year is 6. Made me cry and wondered why me? I just wish there is someone I can talk with here even texting for full support. I tried the group support, none of them would have interpreters since I am deaf. Its frustrating that I cannot get help. I dont know if we are allowed to exchange texting number on this site?

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