Naw, coming here doesn't mean you have no life, it could mean that you want more of a life, or a different kind of life. It sounds like you might want a different kind of life because you're not a loner by choice.
This is a good place for venting your frustrations while you find new friends to hang with.

yea u right...I gotta have a More positive outlook ...its hard but I came to the right place..

well i am sorry and i understand its not an easy thing sometimes dealing with that feeling, try and stay positive

Welcome to the grp. I understand how you are feeling.

is your boyfriend controlling your life, where you go, who you see? because that wouldn't be right if he his. no one has the right to stop you from going out and doing what you want. if what you want isn't what HE wants, and what he wants isn't what YOU want, then you're just going to make each other miserable. but if that's not what's going on, then, well, never mind me :).

if that's not the case, then sounds like you might want to do some activities that get you out socializing, maybe with your boyfriend? like... taking the dog to training classes or to a dog park, taking a fun class, hanging out at a cafe?

Welcome to the group. I understand what you're going through. Try to keep your head up because things will turn around for you. After becoming sober I lost a lot of "friends" and my only real best friend lives 500 miles away from me, and I miss her tremendously. Don't look at it as you're just a loner or a loser with no life, look at it as you're too good for most of the people you know and aren't friends with. You seem like a very intelligent person and you're also extremely pretty, so don't let it start taking a toll on your self esteem. Although I can't run out and grab some starbucks or have a girls night out, I can offer you my eyes and ears if you ever do get lonely. I'd love to hear from you sometime so feel free to message if you ever just need someone to talk to. :)
Best of luck to you and once again, welcome!
-Casey

after reading this again, why did your BF make you get rid of your male friends out of jealousy

Welcome to the group. Like Wendyhi said, joining this group doesn't mean you don't have a life at all. This is a great place to reach out to others who can relate and know what you're going through. I can totally relate to being a loner and not going out. Although the reasons maybe be different, the way it makes us feel is the same. I hope this group can help you and I hope you find what you are looking for. Take care.

the bf is very jealous of other dudes..I guess its in his nature..I can't wait for spring..finally go out wit my dog at least..good poi t everyone at least I'm on here to talk n vent to other people..