Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I have a mild form of autism I tend to miss social que's and i tend to get overly clingy the fewer friends i have. Im proud to say I have one, yea one. People tend to throw me away few friendships have ever lasted longer than a few months. Im worried about losing the one friend I have right now, I know she cares, but im afraid she dosnt want to be my friend. the reason for this is simple she sent me a message on facebook saying she dosnt want to talk, she always wants to talk. i did make her made the other day, and i apologized as much as i could and even reminded her that shes still made at me. told her its good shes made at me, she needs to let the steam off, but i cant help but wonder if shes still going to be my friend. aside from that I tend to be a bit of an idiot and selfish, but Im loyal. Once I had a friend who recently lost her brother, (he was an abusive brother) and she felt bad about it, and I was the only person who could cheer her up, you can guess shes not my friend anymore. how about my relationships, I am straight and a virgin, I am a virgin cause I value "The First time" And want it to be special, Unfortunatly I get dumped before I get close, Out of Quite a few relationships, the most common thing to do to me is to dump me and start dating someone else without ever filling me in, so I try to figure out whats going on, and suddenly Im a stalker, infact the last 3 have been just that. Yea Im a mess, A stupid f*** up mess, Cant keep a GF, cant Make friends, cant do anything right.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
When it comes to relationships even if they fail treat them like learning experiances. Learn what you did wrong and try hard not to repeat it. DOnt take all the blame up on yourself either as it ALWAYS takes two people to make a relationship/friendship work. I have a son with autism and I see how it can be dificult to interact with otehrs and maintain friendships/relationships. A lot of people will choose to ignore you over telling you that your behavior is not acceptable. I understand that you cant help it and we "ALL" deal with what life gives us so please dont take anything I have said personnally I am trying to help you understand that you are a unique person. I have found in life that most people choose to ignore others instead of helping them out. I see it every day with hadicaped people and how others treat them always looking down instead at. I personally try to treat EVERYONE as human beings and give them the respect they deserve.
Like I said I have a son with autism and I see his strugle every day to just fit in. You are a beautiful person that lacks social skills on interaction with otehrs.The trick is to learn those skills and notice how people react to the things you do or say.
I would be honored to be your friend if you choose!
Here's a link to the group if you're interested sweetie...x
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Autism-Autism-Spectrum/support-group
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Asperger-Syndrome/forum
Logic dictates that the only way for a person with Autism to achieve a satisfying relationship and friendships is with other people who have Autism. Are there meetup.com groups of this kind?
Having friends is hard, getting friends is harder. Sometimes people get other friends, this does not mean they are not your friend anymore just means they got other friends too. Being overly clingy is something that can put people off, but if you are open with people and ask them to tell you when you are so you won't make them feel put-off.
I don't have autism (that I know of) and I have/had similar issues while growing up,
Also, if the girl you are going out with doesn't even tell you and starts going out with someone else - that is totally disrespectful and shows just the type of person that they are.
Don't know If I am being helpful, but I am trying - I have been told I have a gruff personality - and I am sorry if I seem that way or anything of the kind. Just trying to be supportive.
Keep your chin up -
I'm pulling for you. We're all in this together.