Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Do you ever feel like your loneliness gets comfortable? And when it does, and you are used to doing things by yourself, do you feel extra irritable toward other people? Like when they disrupt your routine, do you just think omg shut up I want to go back to what I was doing!
I often feel like this because I am a loner. I have always been a loner because most people get on my nerves and I don't fit in with them. Its weird tho because some times I get lonely. Sometimes when I'm at work or out running errands I feel like I am invisible or I am the only person there. Like the crowds of people around me are just energy and not real people. Sometimes I wish I had friends to talk to. I just have my fiance, which is at least one person, but I feel like a weirdo because I don't have other friends to hang out with.
Most people get on my nerves. I havent felt well lately and it has made me more irritable. Yesterday I had to deal with such dumbass customers I wanted to cry. It's like how are some people allowed out of the house with a brain that dead? If more people were educated and polite they would be so much nicer to talk to. But instead they base nothing on facts and define reality only by the other dumbasses around them and their opinions. So no wonder I feel alone. I don't stay super busy or stir up constant drama. I just sit back and try not to get involved because the way it seems to me is people like me don't get rewarded. Well Behaved, educated, decent looking. But I get ignored, taken for granted, passed over, or flat out made fun of and called stupid by people I can guarantee have an iq at least 10 points lower than me. Lately it has really been bothering me. I don't like feeling like a kid in school in my adult life. I used to work myself to death at rough jobs and try to dumb myself down as much as possible just to fit in. But now I have a good job and I have to behave here. It's hard to fit in without being able to use my alter ego. So now I just feel bored and lonely again. I keep quiet and try my best to ignore how mad some customers make me. It just makes me want to burst when someone has the nerve to talk to me like I am stupid when I can't understand them because they can't read write or speak without a severe speech impediment. I try to be as helpful and polite as I can. Sometimes I just want to go to the toilet and throw up. Idk why other people are irritating me so much. I dreaded coming to work today because I had idiots yesterday. Sometimes they come back the next day and try the same crap. Insisting they know more about how my job works than I do. Listen to the facts not the gossip, people!
Ok I'm done venting. Hope the rest of yall lonely people aren't dealing with dumbasses too.
At the moment I can relate to feeling lonely and invisible while out and about. Good thing you have your fiance but yeah might be nice to have a friend as well.
Customers can definitely be annoying in trying tell you how to do your job. I hate when they feel like they can say whatever comes to their mind however you have to sit and take it. Thankfully I am not dealing with random customers but some of my clients can be condescending. I have one who likes to flex her knowledge like I was not the one who implemented the functionality in her software system.
Anyways hope you feel better soon.
But I have come to realize I myself am quite arrogant, and if I'm not careful, my arrogance shows itself when I deem myself smarter, more educated, all-around better than the people I interact with on a daily basis.
So when I have a trying day dealing with the "unclean masses", I have to ask myself if my arrogance and elitism is showing? Maybe I should instead realize that there truly are people, whom by no fault of their own (having been born with a lower IQ), aren't as intellectually blessed as I.
And being intellectually blessed, I most likely have more opportunities to have a more rich and fulfilling life than they.
So I try to be kind. Bless their little hearts.
I stopped seeking connections and I give zero fucks about finding love because it has gotten too dangerous. Most people I know in relationships are miserable because they settled for someone they really didn't want and their self-esteem was too low to even think they could do better. I'm sick of broke bums, just sick. I'm trying to raise my son to respect women, but he better not ever abuse or violate a woman and if he wants a girlfriend or wife, he better make sure he can provide well for her. I think a lot of parents dropped the ball. They raised men that are entitled bums and women accept this behavior from men because they are lonely, desperate, and don't think a better man will want them, which is bullshit. All I can say is good luck to those who want friendship and love. I'm done. I prefer having a peace of mind, good health, and my freedom. I am NOT risking my health or freedom by settling for another sociopathic, broke, entitled bum. No ma'am! Never again. God bless.
I think Nickie is right when she says too many people drop the ball as parents. That's gotta be the explanation why morons and lazy people are so numerous. I guess I just have to grit my teeth. I can be as kind as can be to an old person who had a stroke but a young person who is dumb and rude because they are lazy I can't stand. They don't have to act like that.
God bless you love.