Hi Suzi: What you have said so far is emotional and not facts in any way. What facts do you have to point blame at this person? Is there a surveillance video anywhere near that would show who may have taken the money? Did you get your till from a cash room that may have shorted you? Please think this through carefully.

I had a relative that worked in a large store and they had an office and a cash room. If you have someone that shorts the money and you don't count the till when you get it, then you get stuck. Did you count the money when you got it? Or did you take over on a different shift from someone else and shared the till?

I feel for you as this is not good that someone stole from your work....stealing is wrong....leaving someone else without is bad...

emotions like you are feeling for this coworker need to be put into check....not because you think he is untrustworthy but because you need a professional relationship with coworkers....I crossed that boundry one time and it sort of sucked when she broke it off on me....so do not go there....the word from experience....huggles bill

This doesn't surprise me. I have no advice for you, I wish I did though. I will say that many people use their seductive powers to harm others they see as weak. The emotional control act is hard to not fall victim to because then they use the cold and callous manuever on you. Charm sucks too because it masked the person's venomous personality. I've been accused and fired many times by treating people like this without caution. If you ask me, he's the devil.

This doesn't surprise me. I have no advice for you, I wish I did though. I will say that many people use their seductive powers to harm others they see as weak. The emotional control act is hard to not fall victim to because then they use the cold and callous manuever on you. Charm sucks too because it masked the person's venomous personality. I've been accused and fired many times by treating people like this without caution. If you ask me, he's the devil.

Go with your gut and start emotionally distancing yourself. I once had a roommate that I had been friends with since we were kids cheat me out of money. She lied about not getting our rent deposit back and pocketed my half. I confirmed with the apt people that it had been mailed to her new address. I never confronted her but I just dropped her as a friend. What is the point of being lied to again? Keep your eyes open and if worse comes to worse get another job. Im sorry he did that to you. Its an ugly feeling.