once u start comparing urself with other girls, u start to shake ur self-esteem, and thats not good sweety =)
ur so pretty! and im saying that because I really mean it!, the fact is there will always be someone richer, better, smarter, prettier, taller girl, but really, beauty never lasts! once day those pretty girls will have a saggy body and fallen face XD well, win his heart with ur brain and not ur looks :) cause if he likes u because ur pretty and have a nice body that means he's just a player, but if he likes u for who u are then it means he really like u!

Thank you, healingLight. Honestly, that really helps out this matter. I've never really been the one guys like, so I don't have great experience when it comes to the male population.

maybe because ur giving them an impression that you are insecure girl! I dont know but what I do know is that guys like outgoing girl and u have all what it takes to look good looking and ur smart enough to catch any guy u want and keep him for urself ;)

but first to earn that extra high self-esteem try to do something that can enhance ur looks! maybe u should get a hair cut! and after that maybe stop at a clothing store and buy urself some cute summer outfits! :) and we can start from there!, u can ask for my help anytime ;D

i am not much to talk quite honestly, considering all my pitfalls, but i say if you have feelings and you know its not just being sick of being alone (sure to get you kicked in the heart) then say something, doesnt have to be face to face as that may be way to daunting, but a note or something might be a better approach just be sure of where your feelings and emotions are before putting them on the line

Alright, thank you Darknessfalls. We will see what happens I guess

i wasnt being dark on the whole idea am just a jaded and untrusting person, just dont want to see anyone else cop some of the kickings i have. most definately not saying dont do it, just saying sometimes we need to take a small step back to think about where we know we are at and where we think the other person is, but if all seems good and you feel strong in it then go for it, never know if you dont try

NatalieO, never compare yourself to anyone, none of us have the ability to see inside someone, no matter how beautiful they appear to be on the outside, does not mean they also do not have insecurities.

Women are all a complex mix of insecurities and confidences, in different percentages.

I once was married to such a handsome man, but in truth he was the ugliest person l have ever met, because he was violent, Outside beauty is nothing at all, if you are not beautiful on the inside.

Most real genuine people can see that. Your photo above portrays a beautiful face, so dont ever doubt yourself honey, you are beautiful physically, but most importantly you need to be a good kind person, who believes in themselves, and the world will love you for that.

I have 3 sons, who know the difference between a pretty face, and a beautiful person, and guess what, they choose to be with beaufiful people,.

Be yourself, and no need to change anything, tell him you like him, take a chance why not? You will never know if you dont try, and if he rejects you, well you wont die baby.

Some people try to live by the motto all good things come to those who wait, no it doesnt, if you want it go for it, if you fail, you tried,.

PS pisces are beautifully sensitive people, you are the lucky one to be emotionally evolved

Thank you so much Peachybum, that helps out A LOT! And I understand what you mean completely, since I am a girl who falls for personality. I'm sorry to hear you married a violent man, and I hope that things are all bright and sunny in your life now. =)

Don't compare yourself to other hun. You are unique, smart, special and wonderful. You don't need to be like others to be awesome. If this boy would rather talk to others based on their looks, and not their intelligence or personality, then he may not be the kind of guy you wanna have feelings for. A good guy cares about what's on the inside. Remember that beauty fades, and dumb is forever. If these "pretty girls" are mean, petty and unintelligent, they will always be that way, but they won't always be pretty. If you are wonderful on the inside and comfortable with yourself you will have that forever. Remember, you are beautiful and wonderful and this guy would be lucky to have you! And ultimately, being comfortable and happy with yourself will do a lot more for you than being tall, or thin, or just pretty.

i haven't dated in 25 years (since meeting my husband of 24 yrs ;)), so not sure how this stuff works anymore, but i'm thinking that there might be a way to explore his feeling for you by flirting a bit, or asking him what he looks for in a woman. maybe he'll be brave and say, "someone like YOU!" or... i could be completely wrong :/

That would be extremely cute if he replied like that!! I think my heart would melt. Hahaha, that's a good idea actually, thank you!