Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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peanutsforu 05/07/2018

i broke up with my significant other cuz i am depressed and i didn’t want to bring her down with my depression and she said she’ll wait for me to get better, but i just regret breaking up with her she made me feel whole and i just miss her so much she gave me company and now i’m alone

Brexo 05/07/2018

Hey, sorry to hear about you breaking up with your girlfriend. What stood out to me is that you said " she made me feel whole". Alot of times when we are depressed it is because there is a void that we are ignoring deep within ourselves. I understand that you love her but you must understand that you need to love yourself first and figure out who you truly are. If you love her then you will do whatever you have to do to get better. Find yourself, dig deep within to see the root of your depression. Feel whole within God. Seek him first. Once you figure out who you are then that is when you are ready to love and be the man that she needs you to be. Find comfort in being alone, and most of the time when these things happen and we start to push people away that is just Gods way of saying " I have a appointment with you" and he will do anything to get you alone just so that you can hear him. I dont know what religion you are but just pray. If you dont know how to pray that is fine. He is also a friend. Ive dealt with depression for years and trust me I know how you feel because ive been there and now that I see the other side of my dark places I can tell you that it was worth it. So just keeping taking it day by day. Do things you enjoy, dont sit in your depression; welcome it but also let it know that it cannot stay. As of now depression may seem like the worst thing that has ever happened to you, but let me tell you. Depression only comes because there is something so great within us that only misery can bring it out. There is beauty in the breakdown. Dont give up. If you need any help or anyone to talk to just message me! "The tougher the day, the greater the strength".

peanutsforu 05/07/2018

i’m actually a girl lol, but thank you so much! i hope she’ll take me back when i’m all better

robotnik 05/08/2018

@Brexo that's why I almost always check the profile : )

@peanutsforu I think you were trying to do the unselfish,noble thing but you may have shot yourself in the foot... I could be wrong...I guess time will tell. But why can't you visit, talk to her...just cause you're dep doesn't mean a wall must go up?

Solus 05/08/2018

I wouldn't wait to be "all better". If you want to be with a person, they should know you - depression and all. What are you doing to feel better. Meds, counselling?She might be able to be a part of it.

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