I'm sorry Krissy, but that doesn't sound how anyone should be treated. Particularly someone who cares about you. Your opinion is valid and should be heard. I'm sorry you're having a tough time.

I've dealt and am still dealing with this same type of person. It's called a narcissist and it's NOT how I envisioned my life as an adult at all.
My ex husband was worse then my current fiance and he was into physically abusing me. This is nothing compared to that and it's lasted a lot longer then my failed marriage 20+ years ago. If I could leave I would in a heartbeat. If you're not at that point yet, this is a good place to keep your sanity and wits about you. All I can advise you to do is keep posting and getting those feelings out here that you think might be a trigger for him as well as for yourself. If you need or want to vent to spmeone, feel free to message me anytime. I try to check in once a day at least and respone or post a journal. God Bless and good luck!

Thanks! This past week we were looking for a house- Ive lived in a housing projrct for nine years with my boys so I was excited- well we found a house, but then he told me he is moving there by himself! I think he used me to do this because english is his second language and he has a thick accent that makes him feel uncomfortable talking to peoole about business matters. Anyway, I read your profile and im half way through my M.A. in clinical psychology, but I havent been to school in a year, have been kind of an emotional wreck, and its discouraging- how am I going to work in a helping field when I'm a mess myself? Anyway, thanks for replying!

Krissy36,
If a bf can't allow you to have an opinion or listen to your ideas, I would suggest that you should find the strength to break it off. The reason being is that it will only get worse, in most instances and you will find yourself more lonely, isolated and in a unhealthy cycle. You should be happy in life and relationships, not bound in servitude.