Hello young man,

I know the feeling. It use to be a struggle for me, but then I adapted. Now I just keep myself busy. I have joined social groups so just not to feel totally isolated.

I'm pretty free spirited

Whats going on in your life?

Hugs

Do you try to do any activities that involve being around other people? I too am generally a loner but i like to go to a bar here that's low key never really super busy to play pool and it's always a good time. Even if you don't drink. Alt of times people will approach you

Hello everyone,

I don't have that many activities and not many friends. I have no clue what to do outdoors since Summer is around the corner.

Thank you for the hugs MaryContrary.

Talking is a great way of keeping the loneliness at bay.
I too am a bit of a loner and avoid larger crowds as I find people are judgemental and enquiring I know there is no malice in there conversations but what happened to general conversation?? I’m a private person who has many social issues, I admit I don’t mind talking to people that much I just prefer to do it mainly 1 on 1 or in smaller groups.
Anyway feel free to talk away Im around a few times a week to listen if you’d like

Maybe find s hobbit you could be interested in. Allot of places have groups for people exploring new hobbies. That's why i suggested pool. It's a fun game and most people could care less of your skill level. If you have lakes around you, go trout fishing and people watch. Even if you don't catch anything i find peace and serenity just being there

Being a "loner" is really a choice one makes because they don't trust anyone to be vulnerable with, perhaps instead of calling yourself a loner why not be a Creator define your own group of like minded folk to enjoy and discover the world with.

hey man I know how you feel. I lost all of my friends after highschool and college. I havent had any friends for the past like 7 years. And I also caught schizophrenia. I am joining volunteer work to meet new people with my condition. If you have any conditions try joining some sort of groupe with social services in your area. It can help a lot.

Thank you FollowinginChrist.

I too am a loner, I also feel that I don't fit in anywhere. always on the outside looking in. i try to get on with people by being a people pleaser but it doesn't work. i wish you well and just wanted you to know that i am thinking of you.

I would be happy to talk with you. Let me know. Take care in the meantime.

Thanks.

Gregory1 please feel free to message me whenever you need someone to talk to. I know how painful loneliness can be.

I understand I know how you feel we all need someone to talk to you can talk to me if you want to I'm a Loner to need someone to talk to