Same here... It always seems to be my mouth betraying me by saying the wrong stuff and people avoid me. I think you just have to try to think before saying stuff and dont compare yourself to another. People talk differently, and thats just the way it is.

Wow so I'm not alone on this... i constantly compare myself to everyone. Unfortunately I lose every time. And there's nothing wrong with sayin to much, it's good to have a blunt friend, I love people who speak freely because I have crippling social anxiety so my conversations are very short.... but people who just say what they think I admire and treasure their friendships. But being the awkward shy kid we don't get many friends so I understand how you feel about being lonely... it's the story of my life...

I don't think being alone is a good idea don't isolate it's the worst thing u can do are there any places that are in public that u enjoy going too?? Get on meetup there's several groups all different types of interest u can meet people on

Sorry, you're having a rough time. If you'd like, we can talk sometime. I'm a 27 yr old male who suffers with depression, social anxiety and loneliness. Feel free to message me if you'd like someone to chat with. That goes for anyone else in this thread as well. Just send me a message.

Hey, I definitely know how you feel. Especially the part of thinking about acepting thats who we're and that we suposed to be alone. But I say do you, do you think you deserve to be alone? Nobody deserves that.
You already took the first step on not being alone, here you'll find suport, and a lot of people, that will show to you that you are not alone.
Everybody is diferent, everybody has your own kind of shine, so dont compare yourself with others, and try to figure out your own shine. (I know how thats its rough, for example for me I have to wake up everyday and put that thought in my mind, no matter how hard it is)
You are not alone! Stay Strong. Hugs

There's always someone out there willing to listen and talk. I'm one of those people.

Try getting involved with crafts and hobbies which interests you-you will meet others with the same interests

You don't have to be alone, you have support on here. I understand what you mean though, really. I find it challenging with my social anxiety to reach out to friends who have their own busy lives, families, bubbly personalities, and all while I subconsciously compare myself to them. I'm only hurting my self when I compare, I have to remember my good qualities and talk nicely about myself to myself...if that makes sense. Don't get stuck in your own head. Accept the fact that you have strengths and certain things about you that make you strongly unique!