My boyfriend does that.... a LOT, he always says what's on his mind, and he sticks to his opinion no matter who doesn't like it..... I admire him for that though.. soemtimes I wish I could be more like him. It isn't a bad thing. Everybody should have their own opinion and other people should learn to accept it. It's just you being yourself. It can get you into trouble, so I'd be careful if I were you, but don't be ashamed of your opinions, be yourself!(:

yes people tend to be very fragile, i hold to my honesty though no sense in concerning whether people are going to get offended, the truth is the truth, and no matter the lie if you use it, it will always come uncovered and they will be hurt anyway, i wouldnt worry, its like people want honesty as long as it has no bareing on them, but yeah i hold to my honesty and opinions, cause well its just the best way to go.
of course everything i just said is opinion so i guess it sorta gels

The only time I do is when I speak before I think. I try very hard to be mindful of other's feelings and I think the majority of people do. I'm not saying it is the right thing to do (not give an honest answer to avoid hurting someone).

I do it all the time. My brother is the worst at it though. I find myself explaining a lot about what I meant because I've hurt someones feelings. My brother on the other hand says if it quacks like a duck, looks like a duck, call it a duck. He believes in telling the truth completely. No white lies to save someones feelings.

If I was to ask how an outfit looks on me his response is never flattering. He lets me know all the flaws. You end up feeling pretty bad about yourself sometimes. He just doesn't care who he offends.

I call it the foot and mouth syndrome. I'm always putting my foot in it. :)

I think it's best to always analyse the situation and the person and figure out how honest to really be in some cases, but always stick to what you believe no matter what

Some people can't admit they are wrong. Bad situation when you try to help those people.

I actually try to consider other peoples feelings when I say something, I think if what I'm about to say would hurt my feelings, the answer is mostly no, and I say what I'm thinking. Whenever someone asks my opinion about them personally my response is always, "Do you want the truth?"

I tend to find that when I am around people for a while I tend to snap out of that but usually when I am alone for too long I start doing it again. I think it's because If Im alone I'm always thinking to myself so then when I go around others I am just naturally voicing my thoughts.

Hi,
I have a comment. I'm not an outspoken person, all I do is give comments about different things I've heard and when I do say something, it comes out wrong way. Example my brother and I were just having a simple conversation then I brought up our dad who left our home when we were kids, he went to another woman and her kids. He said that he wanted to talk with our dad and tell him exactly how he feels. I told him that I had misplaced the phone number (which I did). I was so upset about what was going on and I feel that he and others in my family is upset with me for being a bad person. I've asked different ones am I a bad person and they say no but I'm getting a bad vibe from different ones and is wondering what did I do for this.

I'll call him and ask did I offend him, if so I'd apologize. I wounldn't want to hurt anyones feelings. But if there is something on your mind, you can say it in a certain way, where the other person will not be offended or don't say anything at all.

Sorry if it wasn't a big help to you.

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There's always a positive comment you can make about other people's clothing, hair, etc. You may have to reach pretty far for it, but it's there. Try people watching when you shop. Find one positive thing to "say" about everyone you see. It's a good exercise that will help you with your relationships.

I think being honest is the best way to do things, especially if you're trying to be helpful with a friend. Even then, there are people who are so set in their ways that they refuse to listen and resist changing themselves for the better.

Many of my friends and I are so much alike that any difference of opinion is often settled very easily. We don't fight, we don't hurt one another and we do our best to try a change if it's suggested.