Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I’m new to this and don’t really have anyone to talk to... I’ve been dealing with a lot lately and I just feel really alone. I’m 16 weeks pregnant and found out I’m having a sweet baby girl. It’s supposed to be one of the most exciting times of my life and it’s been the worst... the main I’ve been in love with who I thought I was spending the rest of my life with has been acting like a completely different person since we found out.. all he kept talking about is how bad he wanted a baby and couldn’t wait until we started a family and now that we have, he is never here anymore. He’s constantly out drinking with his friends. He claims to be going to the gym at 1 in the afternoon then doesn’t come home until after 3 or 4 in the morning or he’s “working” and it turns into a 2 hour job to him being gone for 12+ hours.. We used to go on trips together all the time and now he doesn’t even ask me or invite me and makes all these plans with “his guy friends.” We don’t even have conversations anymore. I try to go to dinner with him and he sits on his stupid phone and texts “the guys” or scrolls through Facebook the whole time. I even took him to a movie and he didn’t even know what was going on because he wouldn’t get off his phone the whole time.. I quit my job, left all of my old friends, even moved away from my hometown and my mom for this guy and now I’m scared. I’m terrified. Our house is in his name. We have a joint bank account that he literally never leaves money in. And I’m scared but I’m so tired of pretending that everything’s okay and that I’m happy... because I’m not.. I’m scared and lonely and I don’t know what to do. I just can’t sit here alone anymore... if anyone has any advice or even some kind words I could really use some help right now.. I’m just really scared and lost and I don’t know what to do and I only want the best for my baby girl..
A young woman was on the phone and couldn't hold onto her baby son and talk at the same time so she let him wander around the parking lot. I caught sight of this and decided to take the kid back to her mom; wait for her to finish talking and then hand over the kid. I think she was calling a taxi or a family member. Very soon after a car came and picked her and her baby up and then they left that apartment building. I think she had been staying with the father of her baby but finally decided to leave him. She must have been staying alone with her baby son in that apartment all day waiting for the guy to come home from work. She left without telling him, I think but I could be wrong.
That's a true story. I thought of it after reading your piece.
If your mom will still have you go back to her to have your baby. You may even be able to get your old job back.
The current situation with your man is very negative, if you ask me. I must admit I even fear for your life and that of your unborn. He can't handle fatherhood right now, I'd say. I saw this program where there was a similar situation to yours and the guy couldn't handle it to such a degree that he tried to kill his girlfriend. She was very much in love with him as well but I think he was too young and immature to be a father. She survived...barely.
I am here if you need to talk, just message me.......
Praying for you,
Zuhair