Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Just feel like I do not get any enjoyment or happiness in my life.I am going to college to try and better my life but do not seem to get any satisfaction out of doing well in class.So even though people tell me I am doing great I feel like I am just the same sad person I have always been.I go to therapy and see a doctor for my depresson but still it does not seem to help.I have people around me usually every day but still feel lonely.I have a partner who says they love me but then seems to ignore me or get upset when I ask for attention while being on their computer talking to people or playing a game.Am I asking to much from life to just have some one want to spend time with me?I am trying to make my realtionship work or as some say fix it.But how can I fix a realtionship that does not seem to want to be fiixed with the person I love.In other words I feel like I am trying to make things better and no one else in my life even cares that I am trying.So I feel like I am completely alone in my life.My one enjoyment right now is my dog.I love her unconditionally and know she loves me.And my dog wants to be with me no matter what.I have never found anyone who can tolerate being around me like my dog has.Maybe this is why I feel all alone even when people are around me and I feel ignored when there is someone in the same room with me.
Do you think your partner is upset that u are initially on the computer talking to others instead of him or do u go on the computer to chat with others because he's not giving u attention u desire?
If he ignores you & doesn't show you the attention you would like, you have to ask yourself if this is someone who you would be willing to spend the rest of your life with or move on to find someone who will meet most of your needs & desires..
Make a list of things that really matter in your life; with #1 being the most important. Things you don't have or haven't accomplished, work on them in the order they are to get the fulfillment, out of life, that you desire so much. No, it's not too much to ask out of life to want to have someone to spend time with you.
But mostly it works out. When he plays video games I will sit with him and watch. When he's drawing I will read. If he's chatting a lot I will ask if it's something he can share. Sometimes he's talking to an upset friend, but other times it's just funny small talk that we'll both add to the conversation.
I pretty much felt like you do - he was home, but not available for me to really be with. I hated it and eventually found the above solutions, plus we sometimes go out for walks or even just an icee. Adding the small bit of us with no phones or such helped too.