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Fantasy Football

Ghostwolf04
Ghostwolf04

Let me start by saying I hate sports. Don't get them, don't play them, don't watch them. Sure as hell don't respect athletes.


I am so sick of dating guys who like sports. Everyone says "oh be glad he isn't doing something bad." When I met my current man, I thought there was no way he was into sports. He was an emaciated dork with glasses and super shy. But no he is obsessed with football for some reason. This year is his worst. Idk if he is paying so much attention to football because he quit drugs or what. I am so lonely. He pays no attention to me whatsoever and I presume it will be this way all winter. He has that fantasy football shit on his phone. I don't get it. It's so dumb. He is detatched and obsessed with something that isn't real, which is based on something else that is dumb and doesn't matter.


He barely texts me when he is at work. He will go all day some days and not text me and when I complain he says it's because he was too busy talking to people about fantasy football. He comes home and is on his phone even at the dinner table. He has been making his own dinner consisting of pizza rolls instead of eating with me and Mom. He spends his whole day off, according to mom, in bed on his phone. He comes home tired and goes to bed early, then gets up after I fall asleep so he can go watch football on TV. Last night I wanted to play a game with him and he said he couldn't. He was too busy playing Madden football video game, which is also super boring.


What really pisses me off is if I'm on my phone or try to watch TV with mom he gets all jealous and nosey. I don't say shit about what he does.


I just feel like I'm not even in a relationship. He wasn't home over the weekend and it was so nice.

AnnieToman
AnnieToman
i watch football if my teams are playing, but i understand your position, there is a certain attraction to a good game ,sometimes its hard to know its outcome, and there is a degree of excitement that movies and TV doesnt have. but this fantasy football is to much for me, even since im alone and have time on my hand to do it. But really girl, something isnt right here, if he values his play time alone more then you now , it probably will get worse not better with time. i see your avatar , and if thats you you dont need a dork with glasses that ignores you during the fall winter months. you look nice, find something better, do you want to start a family with this guy? thats the ques.
answer it, move on or learn to love football like my women did.
invisablefriend
invisablefriend
With your mom being sick that could be how your boyfriend is coping with everything going on at home.
Ghostwolf04
Ghostwolf04
Yeah well when his family is sick (I e his drug addict lost cause brother) he goes and supports them or his whiny pussy male friends. But me or my mom gets sick and he ignores us. I guess I'm not his family or deserve to be comforted.
And as far as liking football, that will never happen for many reasons.
AnnieToman
AnnieToman
RUN!! dont waste anymore time he doesnt have emotional maturity he knows nothing about women. doesnt sound like hes willing to learn either. i would punt his fantasy ass out of there.