Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Caring should cost no money. And feeling each others pain should make us all the more caring. But most people here are lost or stuck in some kind of mode where disregarding the simple needs of more and more people now are what is normal. This place could use more love and equality.
I, as a loner, just sit back and watch it all go to hell in a hand basket. For it is all to overwhelming for one person to do anything about this mess, let alone just help oneself out along the way. I often ponder what the future will be like in this country. But i think that maybe in 50 to 100 years this place will be social chaos and pandemonium. And i probably wont be around to say "I told you so" then. Quite frankly i do not think this country will be around in 100 years time.
As one person, there are some things to do if you still have strength. Read books like from Gandhi or other peace activists or humanitarians. Participate in feeding the homeless in soup kitchens. Or maybe volunteering is some organization depending on your talents. I am considering working for the Habitat for Humanity myself because my skills are in the trades.
The issues you bring up are serious and there is no real simple answer to it in this society. Because it is lost. I could probably go on and on writing about these issues.
But a simple answer would be love.
Love in the simplest answer. That is the way i see it.
at very young ages, and many of them don't receive any kindness.
It's so unfortunate that a lot of mothers don't use their on judgement about things, instead of going along with society, reality tv producers,
money being waived at them. When you make up or dress your child to look provocative, you've done something wrong, even if there's a room full of other women doing this, even if you rationalize that the money is for their college fund, whatever people tell themselves .
If I could change one thing, children would have better lives. They would be treated better, they would always have someone who cares,someone who listens, and helps them when they need help.
Just a thought
the average chinese is now eating meat, for first time for the elderly....in mao's collective communes millions of people starved----cause of the collective communes.
so many kids have gone to college now days that a college education isnt as important as was just 20 years ago----when a college education was a rarer.
a lot of poor americans own a car, computer, cellphone----soviet union in 1940s stopped showing the movie 'grapes of wrath' cause avg russian was impressed by the oakies having a car.
romanian revolution came about partly cause its communist govt showed "dallas", to show evil capitalist usa----with poor romanians loving evil capitalism....larry hagmen even visited romania after the revolution.
though, yes, obama has done a lot to turn people against one another, with obama wanting to take from the educated rich to give to some poor...except for all the dumb billionaires in hollywood.
george lucas is worth about 4 BILLION dollars....and, yes, nobody cares about his easy money.
my blood is boiling right now cause it always seem to be college grads who have had pretty good lives who are JEALOUS of those who are better off.
i've been poor all my life---my idiot parents were poor cause they WASTED MONEY, ON THEMSELVES---my drunken idiot dad never encouraged me to go to college.....and he was a closed socialist.
i live in a hick town surrounded by barflys, addicts, petty criminals who REFUSE TO WORK....and they all have lousy attitudes, which is the real reason they are poor.
I'm poor cause i screwed up.....check out some of my home photos in my profile, including the dumpy house i lived in till my 40s.
every bleeding heart liberal in hollywood lives in a million dollar mansion----and never give any money to charity....there are stories of how they never even leave tips in restaurants.
put "cheapskate celebrities" in a search engine and you'll get a long list.
millionaire sarah louise parker one of them---though she complained that her relatives might have to go on welfare; never occured that SHE should help her relatives.
sean penn and barbra streisand have long been notorious for being cheapskates.
millionaire rockers mick jagger and rod stewart---two more cheapskates.
and, of course, black rap music is nothing but hate....there's no such thing as an uplifting, kind, gentle, rap song.
had to take an aspirin, on top of my blood pressure pill, to calm down....after having gone to the welfare office 6 hours ago with my annual medicare information filled out.
This is simply about our human and civil responsibility to help create an atmosphere to care for and love our fellow man and women. A back to basic tutorial regardless of our affiliations to re- learn how to foster love and respect for each other. Harmony is a human necessity to live peacefully.
I, ME, I BELONG TO VARIOUS GROUPS ON THIS SITE----you dont list any groups.
and you---"we wont take the bait'.....cant sound any more political than that.
we wont take the bait----very 1960s.
and who is the '"we"....sounds very EXCLUSIVE to me.
yeah, my past, my experiences, dont count.
My trigger alert: my evil mom would give my stuff away when I was a kid; I had to hide my stuff when i was a kid, though it still would be given away.
My trigger alert: in 2001, my evil mom died, though was my last close relative; I go to my hometown drop-in to deal with my depression and loneliness----and some woman pesters me about recycling catfood cans!
My trigger alert: March 8 2006 I put my poor cat to sleep----couldnt have the windows open for him in summer, cause the drunken bums/addicts in flop house and crack house outside would have music blarring 24 hours a day or somebody be loitering outside 24 hours a day.
My trigger alert: being on a site where you should improve yourself, instead of the rest of the world, makes me remember how I turned off my brain to deal with such craziness, and wasted time watching the news instead.
Your past experiences do count. We listen with an open heart!
My anti-usa/anti-capitalism ideas in my youth were partly responsible for me being on welfare, being around petty criminals, using drugs, and spitting on the limosines at rockerfeller center (though that last thing doesnt bother me)
I had a kinda crack house behind me, and a flop house adjacent to me; the crack house burnt down, the flop house went broke and is still vacent---thankfully. White, redneck, crack house & flophouse.
As my profile notes: I dont have a car, tv, or cellphone. It's not the govt's fault---and I dont need that stuff anyhow. I need my elderly cat. I feel guilty about putting a prior cat to sleep, on March 8 2006, after the crackhouse fire January 2006.
I'll probably, though hopefully not soon, eventually live in a cardboard box and be thrown in a pauper's grave---but that's not any govt's fault. And, this is a site where people can't even help themself---let alone the world.
"People think different in a palace and a hut"---ludwig feuerbach
I've always lived in some hut....so i apologize for going psycho on this thread.
the end.