Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I have a large group of people, all who I care about, help, and sought after their company but it never goes the other way around.
People who were once my friends are now only my fiance's friends and I get tossed aside. I'm always left out of things, no one makes plans with me, no one makes the effort to talk to me and on the rare occasion someone does make a plan with me they cancel and don't have the decency to tell me.
I see people in their lovely meaningful friendships in which the love is shared while I feel like a ghost. I don't feel like anyone cares about me or would even notice if I were even gone. I'm sick of being walked over and being ignored.
There's nothing I can see that I may have done to hurt anyone and I wish I had because at least that way I would know my flaw to fix and return myself to the world but right now I don't understand why I am an outcast.
I just want a meaningful friendship and I'm going mad seeking it out. I'm sick of feeling alone while being surrounded by people - to the point that I just break down in tears even in public.
People who were once my friends are now only my fiance's friends and I get tossed aside. I'm always left out of things, no one makes plans with me, no one makes the effort to talk to me and on the rare occasion someone does make a plan with me they cancel and don't have the decency to tell me.
I see people in their lovely meaningful friendships in which the love is shared while I feel like a ghost. I don't feel like anyone cares about me or would even notice if I were even gone. I'm sick of being walked over and being ignored.
There's nothing I can see that I may have done to hurt anyone and I wish I had because at least that way I would know my flaw to fix and return myself to the world but right now I don't understand why I am an outcast.
I just want a meaningful friendship and I'm going mad seeking it out. I'm sick of feeling alone while being surrounded by people - to the point that I just break down in tears even in public.
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I recently heard a great 2007 song the other day, "Falling Slowly" because it popped up in my newsfeed, accompanied by the sad news that the male singer, Glen Hansard, just died in a motorcycle accident. I learned that the song won an award and was featured in an indie movie called Once. I just watched it, and it's really good. They made it in 3 weeks on a $100,000 budget. It's streaming on...
You need to get away from these people.
They mean way too much to you, considering how they're treating you. Are they interested in your fiancee?
Your fiancee should be paying attention and even if these new friends of his are treating you badly - that should be enough for him to walk away from them, too.
Hope things get better for you soon.
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"When you fight to cling to people who are no longer meant to be in your life, you delay your destiny. Let them go." Mandy Hale
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"A lot of the pain that we are dealing with are really only thoughts."
I kinda agree with pinterest about kicking them to side....