Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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YouAreMyForever
YouAreMyForever
Anyone there ? I just need someone to talk to , to cry to.. I am...was....(well I don't know right now) with this guy for 15 months TODAY... and he isn't talking to me, he changed his relationship status to single..... He's all I've got, my family won't listen, everything is just a "teen phase"... I lost all my friends... to the point that they all hate me... The one friend I have isn't talking to me either... I don't know what I'm doing wrong... but it must be really bad not to have ANYONE..... my cat won't even come near me today, and he didn't sleep in my bed last night.... Is there something wrong with me ? It feels like NOBODY is there.... Like I'm standing in front of everybody, screaming for them to look at me, and they just walk away... I really do feel alone.. My stomach is twisting, and I can't stop crying....I just need SOMEBODY.... I don't care who, just someone to let me know I'm still alive, or that I have a reason to be..
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am here right now but will not be for long. Please realize that you are not TOTALLY alone because thiose on this site are with you and can empathize with how you are feeling. When I was a teen my Mom told me teens did not get depressed yet I have suffered with depression all my life. So I know how it feels when you are not validated and just told it's "ateen thing". Even if it was just "a teen thing" does that make it less real or less important? NO. Hang in there and do something kind for yourself. ((HUG))
YouAreMyForever
YouAreMyForever
Thank you two, for being here.. No matter how long you are here(:
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's horrible. Yes, there are people on this board who don't even know you that care, so I am sure that there are people in real life who do as well. Even though it's hard to see sometimes.
YouAreMyForever
YouAreMyForever
I'm glad I found this board... It really does help.. I have a couple people in real life that i can talk to... but i guess they're busy, cause they arent replying to my texts... I just feel like I'm supposed to be on my own so i can learn how to survive by myself...i've always had someone to depend on...maybe this is a wake up call? I dunno... but i dont WANT to wake up lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sending big hugs your way. I know how you feel. I have a family who do not communicate at all. I have not heard from them in many many years. When it feels like no one in the world cares it is awful and you can end up torturing yourself over it like I did or hopefully remember to love yourself to fill those voids.
You do not need others to validate you....you need to realize you are beautiful regardless of what they say or do and if you truly believe that.... it will show and new friends will be drawn to you because of your confidence and serenity. Love yourself and friends will flock to you. Think about your good qualities because I am certain you have many and do not dwell on any imperfections because they can also be attributes that make you unique, interesting, and likeable. People are drawn to positive people so try to stay positive and use your best qualities to your advantage, such as your empathy, love, sense of humor........