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Any pet lovers?

LindsayAlone
LindsayAlone

I am thinking about getting a shelter dog and use that down time I put into staring blankly and not doing anything into caring for something that was hoping for love, energy, & attention. I realized today, after having much time to feel lonely and sad after my break up that I need to do something that will motivate me to do something important. Self-initiative motives won’t work. I need a motive outside myself. I’m thinking a furry friend. 

Scaredandafraid
Scaredandafraid
That is a great idea. And it's dual purpose! Therapeutic for you and giving an animal the love and attention it deserves. I wish you luck on finding that special pet and look forward to hearing about your progress with it
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I have been a dog owner for most of my adult life and I am convinced that the reason why God gave us dogs, is to teach us unconditional love. That is all they know is how to give love. That is why it is so hard to say goodbye when they cross over that rainbow bridge, but life is temporary for all of us.

I highly recommend getting a shelter dog if you can afford it. You will enjoy the company, I am sure! If you get one, post a photo so we can all see how adorable he/she is!

God Bless
lucillegem
lucillegem
I can relate!
ive always wanted to adopt a cat or a dog but im waiting until i have more financial stability before i do, but its defs a dream! and adopting is always a great idea =)
billwfriend
billwfriend
yes I have had dog or more than one dog since at least 2000.....I now just have one dog but all together did have two....then took one to be put down and got another right away.....then I got another one and had three for while....had to put one down again and then recently one died on his own.....so now just one....tried another rescue dog that was on nextdoor.com but he was not a fit for me....chewed my glasses and was gone to the pound the next day.....
duck3986
duck3986
My dog brings me joy every day, but Bob has a good point...dogs can be expensive, so be sure you can afford the food and vet bills.

Also, you may have less freedom...dogs need your time can't be left for days, so impromptu weekend trips or sleepovers aren't good if you don't have someone to take care of the dog for you.
Scaredandafraid
Scaredandafraid
My suggestion for weekend trips is boarding the dog. We have a great boarding place here and when we leave town and take them there the dogs actually get excited to run in. They love our dogs and the dogs love it there too. I know there are some horrible places to board them but there is always a few good ones too.
Kingsolomon66
Kingsolomon66
Awesome thought! I have 2 odd- ball cats, pixie has 6 toes and Mrs Miss has three legs ( don't call her slow though, many a bird and grasshopper made that mistake
veggiequeen
veggiequeen
I have had many pets and would love one again, but unsure if I will be able to go somewhere that accepts pets. Some places don't allow them. I have ALWAYS been drawn to animals and children. I do believe it is because they do love and accept you, no matter what. There is something about them coming to greet you when you walk in the door...tails wagging, waiting to be petted and ready to cover you with kisses.

For anyone feeling alone and unloved, they are just what we need (as we are for them. ) Good luck.
sonnycamehome
sonnycamehome
I am definitely a cat person. My lung issues have gotten worse though and pet hair and dander aren't good for me. I live vicariously through pics of my brother's very spoiled cat though ;)
CowboySteve
CowboySteve
I have a chiwawo mixed chow he is my son.I love all animals except snakes
Tryingmybest02
Tryingmybest02
Lindsay, I think its a fabulous idea! The only thing to remember, as you know, that pets are a huge commitment. We got a dog a few years back but had to part ways with it and find it another home. It was very sad. We travel a lot and couldn't care for him like he needed. My little children also were not very gentle with him. They were too young for a puppy and didn't understand the meaning of "be gentle!" But, I had a dog for 14 years before that and he became like a best friend. Dogs and pets offer great benefits (specifically dogs in my humble opinion). You will have someone with you that will support you, love you, and not judge you! As soon as the kids are older our plan is to get another one.
Jamesglen
Jamesglen
Yes! Do it. They provide so much company and show us what unconditional love really is. I love my dog. He is always there for me when no one else is.
annettearizona
annettearizona
Great idea because there are a lot of furry friends out there needing love and needing to give love
PIPER17
PIPER17
I have a husky she helps me a lot and loves me unconditionally
MisterMojoRisin
MisterMojoRisin
It's great that you want to get a shelter dog. Good on you! My last few dogs have been rescue pups, and I think they're the most loving pets you can get.

My last pup was rescued from the slums in Mexico City, and brought up to Canada, where I live. Poor girl had never walked on grass, or layed on anything but concrete.
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