Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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Alone... all one

mikes1648
mikes1648

Being alone gets a bad rap from society. But look at it really. Ever go out and just really look at couples as they work so hard to keep it together.. ??


We are either looking for a relationship, trying to fix one, or get out of one. We are never comfortable alone. why??


Being alone.. you can..  :)


Think clearly


Enjoy silence, i mean really rest into yourself


Leave anyplace anytime YOU want to..


Taste your food.. cuase you are not talking.. or trying to fix someone


Ever go to a concert alone. the music will be felt all through your body.. so much more


skateboarding is supposed to be done alone, so is biking, running, sleeping, reading, cooking, star gazing, hiking, record shopping, etc...


You can fart way more.. 


nap anytime you want to..


Your free. i mean free.. 


Ever swim in the ocean alone. 



Do all of these things.. alone.. and find you are never alone.. feel the peace.. the silence.. the beauty..


The thought of I am alone.. is a thought. what would you be w out that.. you would be free. 


Also.. go out and watch couples as they try to hold up their relationship.. its exhausting to watch. 


Plus at the end of the night, they have to go home and have sex.. you dont.. you can go to sleep.. or you can if you want.. and with someone else. or alone.. 


Your Free.. Free..


Lets work on re looking at alone.. Consumerism does not want you alone.. 



oh fishing i forgot that. 



happy alone.. happy free.. happy everything!!


biaxD05
biaxD05
Hahahahahaha I would like to think like that, but I cant... :(
sonnycamehome
sonnycamehome
I am able to enjoy my own company and enjoy being alone, but I think there needs to be a balance....I've definitely crossed the line into isolation and need to work on bringing more people into my life.
Debbalina
Debbalina
I use to feel that way about being alone - that it was all good - until my "aloneness" turned into a long time, then I became lonely. But I do appreciate the positive reminders about being alone - DEFINITELY. Great post!
jdark87
jdark87
There's so much pressure to find someone that we forget to ve with ourselves. Can't love someone unless you love yourself.
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