Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Well, I haven't heard from my boyfriend in days so I figure he doesn't have room for me anymore in his life. I'm sad of coarse. I hear or see something that reminds me of him and feel worse. It's always hard going through a break up even though this isn't a formal one. No goodbye. No explaination. Just silence.
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I invited Bill to have dinner with me last Sunday. He wasn't willing to drive 7 hours to mid Michigan and teased me with his beautiful ribs!!! So, of course I ate alone and had cedar salmon
Can you sit with the idea that this is more of a casual friendship and be okay with that? If you want different, that is fine but don’t expect this BF to be different than he is. Maybe stop calling him your BF? Seems this man is always really busy and then you eventually hear from him and all is good. It’s painful, I know. Sometimes life pulls two people in different directions. You aren’t getting an official goodbye but it seems he does not see you as someone he needs to see daily. That’s really hard. I think you want a different type of relationship and deserve to let go and focus your attention elsewhere. I am sorry you are going through this wandering in no man’s land with this guy.
I remember your post before... have you thought about going to see him? That way, you two could talk. You could find out where his head is at. And yes, he is busy with his Mom and his job.... but does he have time for you and your relationship? All things you two could talk about - in person.
I know you were waiting for the mask mandates to end at the end of this month. I think after 3 years together with him, you deserve an explanation.