Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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karanhere 04/01/2009

Hi to all of you.
I have something to share with all of you.
I saw a girl today that i really liked but she is my junior at college.I want to ask her out but don't know how to go with it.
I mean i have realised that girls go for bad boysi.e those who don't care for them.
But i am not that type.I easily get feelings and start caring for others.
So should i portray myself as a bad boy or should i be the nice guy to win her approval.
Moreover i am confused because i don't know whether i am doing right with a girl who likes me by asking some other girl for a date.
Please give your opinions on it
TAKE CARE.

deleted_user 04/01/2009

just be yourself, dude. if she doesn't like you for who you are, then move on. pretending to be someone else just to impress a person never works out. sooner or later the real you comes out, and relationships shouldn't be built on deception. and not all girls go for bad boys, and the ones that do aren't worth your time. so just go for it and see what happens. i wish you luck.

deleted_user 04/01/2009

TAKE A LITTLE ADVICE FROM A WOMAN THAT KNOWS ABOUT BAD BOYS .. WE LOVE BAD BOYS THAT ARE NICE, LOVING, CARING CONSIDRATE, ROMANTIC, PASSIONATE MEN !! P-E-R-I-O-D !!

deleted_user 04/02/2009

Sounds like you are at a cross road of some sort: ask someone new out for a date, or stay with the girl who likes you. The choice is yours to make. You're an intelligent person. Just have confidence in yourself- whatever decision you make will be the right one - and I agree with the previous postings - be yourself. Good luck.

deleted_user 04/02/2009

NEVER pretend to be something that you are not! Remember that you are special as you are. If you are not satisfied with the girl that likes you, perhaps you should ask the other girl out. Keep the other girl as a friend. But if you get involved with another, let her know and tell her how much you value her friendship. Don't burn bridges. Other relationships may come and go.

TwilightStar 04/02/2009

As a chick. I honestly advise you that no matter their preference, honesty is key.

And there are chicks out there, me being one of them, that do ADORE the caring type over the bad boys. And will appreciate being treated with respect from the beginning.

So, be yourself. In every shape and form.

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