There is nothing you can do about it. He does not want to.Go to the clubs. Firt with alot of guys.
There are relationship help online.

Hi Luna,

I am so sorry that your going through this. I know it's really hard and it may seem like the pain will never stop. I want to let you know that you're not alone.

I've been there. I am not going to lie, it's not going to be an easy battle, but I promise you it gets better over time. I know its hard but cutting contact will make the process easier. You don't have to do cold turkey, maybe just decreasing the amount of time you contact him over time.

You are wonderful, valuable, loveable, and worthy of love. You're good enough. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Don't give another person the power to control your happiness. You're in charge of your happiness.

If you need to talk you can msg me anytime. I am pretty new on here myself, I'll make the effort to check for your messages.

You're in my thoughts. I wish you all the happiness possible sweetie.

I've been in that kind of situation a few times unfortunately. Most if it was when I was a teen and spend a lot of time online gaming and meeting people online. I can see why he would not be interested in a long distance relationship, they can be very hard to maintain. He probably does not want to go through the trouble, which would mean that he doesn't think you are worth it most likely. As much as it might hurt, it has to be accepted, if neither of you can move closer to one another, then it's best to just move on at your own pace. Try to think about it as a thing that is for the best, although painful.

It may be for the best. Suppose the relationship did move forward. Commuting (2 hours!!!) would get old fast and then you'd argue over who should move. Then if it went south, one of you would really be screwed; new city, etc. Its possible that cutting ties now saves you even more grief later. Your best bet at meeting someone great is to focus on getting over the problems you mentioned. Then when you do meet someone special you'll be happy, well-adjusted, and ready for a LTR. Just my $0.02

I refuse to do LDR reality too...I have all my profiles online NO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS WANTED

it is just bad on me...I want the girl next door to be there for me not a half hour drive out into the county to be with a girlfriend that is too much gasoline....but I am poor...so that makes difference to me...

is 2 hrs really that far? I mean...your just im the car at noon and by 2 your sitting down on the couch. Im a truck driver so maybe my idea of an LDR is different. I know you couldn't just pop over for a lunch break everyday but 2 hrs just doesnt seem that far.

i didn't even think about the gas.....it could get quite expensive i suppose...

yes I agree that 2hr drive is not LDR....it is not convenient but it is not like your going three states away...that is LDR....

I am so sorry you are hurting. Just remember there are other fish in the sea. You cannot change the fact this guy doesn't want to go 2 hrs to see you. There are others that would. I don't know how he feels about you really but I would think if he really cared the distance would not bother him. But maybe he doesn't have lots of money for gas? IDK... Try and do some things to distract you. Like do some things you enjoy... hobbies, just keep busy. I wish I could be more help. hugs

I agree with Violetmist who just posted what I myself was going to say! She took the words right out of my mouth. 2 hours is NOT a terribly big effort. I wouldn't consider it a long-distance relationship. If he doesn't care about you enough to make a 2 hour trip to see you, he is NOT the one for you! The longer you dwell on this man, the lower your self-esteem will plummet. It's tough to find someone in our world today who is not "spoiled" by the availability of so many women, especially on the computer. If 2 hours is too far to travel, this man IS A SPOILED BRAT.