Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I'm curious if anyone ever feels as I do.
I've been out of a five year relationship for almost two years. It was tough but I got by. The one thing that runs through my mind a lot is a sense of loneliness. The problem is I have trouble meeting people and fully understanding etc.
I am dealing with the fact that I'm a hearts over parts kind of girl. Recently after this I visited a friend and we went out to the local gay scene. There were actually some people that came up to me and showed attention. But as per usual, I got nervous. I don't know why this happens. I want to meet new people but I feel like such a weirdo and the urge to run or hide appears.
I know it will be down to me to work this out. I just want to get to a place where I am confident again. I just have no idea what it is I want anymore. I don't miss being in a relationship anymore. But I enjoy the idea of somehow meeting someone special. Even just imagining cuddling on the couch watching a movie, to have that kind of trust and affection again. That would be so nice.
Agh. I apologise for rambling. I've been trying to sort my thoughts and get them out.
Thanks for listening.
I've been out of a five year relationship for almost two years. It was tough but I got by. The one thing that runs through my mind a lot is a sense of loneliness. The problem is I have trouble meeting people and fully understanding etc.
I am dealing with the fact that I'm a hearts over parts kind of girl. Recently after this I visited a friend and we went out to the local gay scene. There were actually some people that came up to me and showed attention. But as per usual, I got nervous. I don't know why this happens. I want to meet new people but I feel like such a weirdo and the urge to run or hide appears.
I know it will be down to me to work this out. I just want to get to a place where I am confident again. I just have no idea what it is I want anymore. I don't miss being in a relationship anymore. But I enjoy the idea of somehow meeting someone special. Even just imagining cuddling on the couch watching a movie, to have that kind of trust and affection again. That would be so nice.
Agh. I apologise for rambling. I've been trying to sort my thoughts and get them out.
Thanks for listening.
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Which explains the mysterious fevers and my extra fatigue. I'm so glad I pushed for answers.
It sounds like you may be a bit shy? and meeting new people is stressful for you... .Is that right??
If so practice will help... The more you push yourself out the easier it will become... You may have to work through the angst for a bit and if you're feeling too anxious some counselling to work through this could help....xo
1. My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws, and to stop this incessant worrying that I can't be loved as I am.
SunCloudJD I am indeed shy at first. Though I do try make an effort. I'm always friendly and though nervous, tend to ease up after a while. When it comes to people that show a different kind of interest though, that gets scary heh Im hoping to try counselling soon.
Billwfriend as far as I understand, if I let someone in and I really like them gender shouldn't be an issue. Thats the only way I can describe it. I don't feel gay or straight feels right to me. I will keep trying to fain confidence.
Gramybear that is a brilliant quote! Thank you so much :)
Thanks again for all the help and advice guys. It would definitely nice if one day I can get past my nerves and meet someone nice again. I considered whether it was worth feeling such things after the end of my relationship. I can't help it though. I've got a lot of affection and romance in me and would love to show that to someone again one day.
Heres hoping.