This site can be slow at times. If you ask me I think you should keep your ds account. Just like everything else in life you won't know what you have until it's gone.

When trying to find true friends and acceptance you can never seem to win,
for most people only in truth seem to be willing to give what they seek,
most all the rest is false glazed eyes and minds,
giving support with words only while their own hearts and minds remain lost.
The best way to help them and your self,
is to find your true self first, then lead the way.
each and every day you struggle for acceptance,
when its never going to be true until you find it within you, once you accept your self and are happy within you, then other will accept that of what you have found within you and then follow in your light.

everyone here is in one way or another lost.
or they would not need that support,
and I am no exception.

Welcome to the Loneliness Support Group

I know how you feel and you are not worthless! Unfortunately passed the certain age friendship building is very straining as we must put lots of work into it as it seems. Don't give up.

Hello! You need to sift through a lot of sand before you find those gold nuggets. Don't be discouraged, it takes a little work to build meaningful friendships but they are out there for you.

first of all, your not worthless....friends or no friends you are always important. It does take time to find the true caring people here, but there are many. It is worth looking for them....Keep that faith!

Wow thank u all for ur comments! I do realize that making and maintaining f riendships takes effort and i have given more than my share of effort! I find that so i am forgotten about or just left out! As i may have mentioned, i suffer with agoraphobia and that adds with the loneliness! I know i wont ever get married as most are not patient enough in handling marriages with one having any mental illness so i just hoped i would have at least 1 good supportive friend! If not for my faith in GOD i would be lost

I am sure you will find many good friends. Keep believing in yourself always. Love yourself first, and the rest will follow.... (((hugss))))))

there are a ton of great people on this site, and there are a bunch of not so great people on this site, some that want it to be all about them, and that is not going to work. Just keep being yourself, friendly and kind, dont stoop to anyone's level, and believe me you will attract the right people, I have made some life long friends on this site. I have had a few scary moments too, one lady wanted to be friends so I said ok, then I asked where she lived, florida and told her I lived in Louisiana. I asked her what it was like to live in Florida and she went nuts!!!! she told me I used her to find out about florida and that I never wanted to be her friend, I was rude, a user and I was never to contact her again, this all happened in a ten minute span. I just shook my head and said Wow out loud. Good thing I didnt live closer. Another person lied about everything then couldnt remember all of her lies and kept changing stories, she was a drama trauma queen and a guy that came to her door wanted to rape her so she called the police, her land lord wanted to rape her, so she called the police, it was always something, then she would always act like she couldnt trust me, and I would say what are you talking about? trust you about what, it was bizarre... the people that are worth while may take a bit longer to convince that you are not nutty, but once you are friends it is for good.

Like I said, just be yourself, be nice and happy, join a few more groups about things you are interested in, it will all be fine soon.
smiles..

Pan

Don't lose faith in people because trust me there are still some really nice people out there. And please don't ever think you are worthless, you seem a really lovely girl, take a hug x

I recently joined this group and I found it very supportive and helpful. Sometimes I also get really lonely and there is no one to talk to. But I am always here to talk to :)