Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
ok since i was on this site the first time many years ago, people post to me and tell me about people who bother them or freak them out. so i have dealt with many a predator on this site. anyhow,
so tonight i see two of my friends posted to someone they dont like their status ti worries them and they hope he is ok. so i go look at what his status is, and its a down on your luck kind of sick of it all status. i understand been there done that. so while trying to see whats going on. i find he has been on this site for several months, he has not joined any groups or forums at all. but he has over 70 friends all women, ok nothing wrong with that, but my curiousity gets the best of me, so i search out his name using the search bar, never has he posted on his own or commented on any post on this site, if you search out your name on the tope it pulls up everything, yoru posts, posts you made on other peoples in the site everything. so now my brain is triggered, predator, but i dont want to assume, maybe hes a lonely guy, who cant talk to guys on in a forum, , so now, i email him just to test my theory,
i wrote to him whats below
saw some friends posted about your status so just wanted to say if you need to talk or a guys perspective, let me know
plain and simple reply NO,
ok again nothing concrete, my question, does something seem fishy or am i just reading too deep
so tonight i see two of my friends posted to someone they dont like their status ti worries them and they hope he is ok. so i go look at what his status is, and its a down on your luck kind of sick of it all status. i understand been there done that. so while trying to see whats going on. i find he has been on this site for several months, he has not joined any groups or forums at all. but he has over 70 friends all women, ok nothing wrong with that, but my curiousity gets the best of me, so i search out his name using the search bar, never has he posted on his own or commented on any post on this site, if you search out your name on the tope it pulls up everything, yoru posts, posts you made on other peoples in the site everything. so now my brain is triggered, predator, but i dont want to assume, maybe hes a lonely guy, who cant talk to guys on in a forum, , so now, i email him just to test my theory,
i wrote to him whats below
saw some friends posted about your status so just wanted to say if you need to talk or a guys perspective, let me know
plain and simple reply NO,
ok again nothing concrete, my question, does something seem fishy or am i just reading too deep
deleted_user
I had a female friend who a few months ago alerted me of a person who became very forward and point blank asked her for her personal email. She deleted him, he still continued to email her DS account and talking in a suggestive manner. She gave me his name and I did some checking, found kind of the same women thing, which I agree is not a big deal, but found that he was listed under two identities with the same picture of himself as his avatar. I finally just emailed him and told him to leave her alone or she would report him. That put an end to it. I believe go with your gut and remember, usually where theres smoke, there's fire.
gettingitstraight
i am the same way fear i get it, i have just dealt with too many of them that have bothered women on here, thanks
deleted_user
Some people can right out be trouble no matter what groups you belong to. That's why I've left a few times and now am very careful and watchful myself. Sounds like you know the signs to look for, no postings, groups, journals, nothing .... makes you wonder. Keep it up and thanks for doing your part to keep a support site, just that.
deleted_user
Yep, I think something isnt right. Most of us (Im assuming and I dont know everything but it makes sense) are on here to get advise from others, feel like we are not along with our problems, build friendships and be able to let things out with people on commom grounds.If a male has nothing but female friends, hasent posted any questions or made anyone aware that he has some type of concerns that he is dealing with in life- then the REAL questions is WHY is he on here?????? I can only speak for myself but im on here to better myself and get the thoughts of others.
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